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Its obvious that you would save those who are the most vulnerable and can't save themselves like children but life and death situation has nothing to do with love.
Some of you are turning this topic to another subject.
That father saved his wife over his son. Does that mean he loved his wife more than his son ??
I don't think so.
In that situation he had the possibility of saving his wife but much less chance of being able to save his son so he chose to save one over saving none.
OP, you sound like a great husband. Try to give it some more time. How much longer is she planning on nursing your child? He is 2 years old, right? Maybe once that phase is over " she will come back to you ".
I remember being a restless wreck the first few months of my son's life, especially while I was nursing . That period was hard for me
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I think for many more months from now on. I tried everything to improve our marriage but it didn't helped much.
But i would always stick by her no matter how our situation would be . I am getting used to it , so its a positive step.
As i said earlier, Maybe over time I'll learn that my situation's not so bad. Growing up in Minnesota, a friend and I often joked that the state motto should be, "We're number two!" The Vikings made it to several Super Bowls and lost. Every new skyscraper was built almost as tall, but never taller, than the IDS tower. In deference to New York City, Minneapolis branded itself "the mini apple." At times, the entire state celebrated being in second place. Only recently have I begun to take my eyes off the thrill of being number one and concentrate on the particular romance of being number two. Men, we are Minnesota. And you know what? It's nice there.
I just wanted to vent out of my feelings and frustations and i am fine now.
Thanks for the advice.
In that situation he had the possibility of saving his wife but much less chance of being able to save his son so he chose to save one over saving none.
That is what i said , you don't know what you would do in that situation. So these situations are not a good way to measure love.
OP - you said this forum would be the best place to share your story/question. But this isn't the first time it's been posted is it. Here is the exact same story. Pretty much just the age of the baby is different.
OP - you said this forum would be the best place to share your story/question. But this isn't the first time it's been posted is it. Here is the exact same story. Pretty much just the age of the baby is different.
I wrote it some way back. Our son was 14 months then. It didn't got responses so i thought about posting it in public forums.
Thanks for sharing it here. These feelings of mine are with me for many months now.
OP - you said this forum would be the best place to share your story/question. But this isn't the first time it's been posted is it. Here is the exact same story. Pretty much just the age of the baby is different.
Even better haha. His one post he took an entire last paragraph from the article.
"Maybe over time I'll learn that my situation's not so bad. Growing up in Minnesota, a friend and I often joked that the state motto should be, "We're number two!" The Vikings made it to several Super Bowls and lost. Every new skyscraper was built almost as tall, but never taller, than the IDS tower. In deference to New York City, Minneapolis branded itself "the mini apple." At times, the entire state celebrated being in second place. Only recently have I begun to take my eyes off the thrill of being number one and concentrate on the particular romance of being number two. Men, we are Minnesota. And you know what? It's nice there. "
OP: Maybe she's trying to be considerate by not coming back to bed, and waking you up in the middle of the night? Before our kids slept through the night, I always slept in a different room because my husband is such a light sleeper, the slightest noise or movement disturbs him. He took it personally too, but after a few nights of me sleeping in the same room (with the baby monitor on) finally got through to him.
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