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Old 09-14-2013, 01:00 PM
 
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A bit of info:

We are in the same lecture, and I want to ask her out. I'm Male;18 and she is Female;~18.

We've only chatted once for about 30 seconds, but she seems very nice, and possibly interested (perhaps because she is very polite?). Practically the only thing I know about her is her name, so that is why I'm a bit unsure.

Would I be fine just asking her out? Should I get to know her better? If so, what would be some ways of getting to know her better?

Thank you!
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Old 09-14-2013, 01:02 PM
 
Location: Metro Detroit
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A bit of info:

We are in the same lecture, and I want to ask her out. I'm Male;18 and she is Female;~18.

We've only chatted once for about 30 seconds, but she seems very nice, and possibly interested (perhaps because she is very polite?). Practically the only thing I know about her is her name, so that is why I'm a bit unsure.

Would I be fine just asking her out? Should I get to know her better? If so, what would be some ways of getting to know her better?

Thank you!
That's how you'll get to know her better. Yeah, ask her to grab a bite after class or something. What's the worst that can happen? She says no? Dear god. Ask her out
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Old 09-14-2013, 01:02 PM
 
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Why not? The only way you will find out if she has any interest is if you ask her out or talk to her more than just 30 seconds you've had with her.
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Old 09-14-2013, 01:52 PM
 
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Dude, how do you think you get to know her better? Aside from sitting next to her in class and walking out with her, you ask her if she wants to go for coffee, or lunch, or pizza, or whatever. Didn't you already get practice with this in highschool? These are the dating basics. And if she turns you down, move on to the next one (there will be another one, sooner or later). If she says she doesn't have time because she works, or whatever, all may not be lost. Make eye contact with her in class and give her a smile, and see if she responds. You may be able to build something, anyway. Read the cues. It's all about cues.
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Old 09-14-2013, 01:52 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Getting to know someone before asking them out is a horrible idea.
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Old 09-14-2013, 01:55 PM
 
Location: Metro Detroit
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Getting to know someone before asking them out is a horrible idea.
Straight to the friend zone.
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Old 09-14-2013, 01:59 PM
 
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Straight to the friend zone.
Exactly!
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Old 09-14-2013, 02:04 PM
 
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Getting to know someone before asking them out is a horrible idea.
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Straight to the friend zone.
Straight to the Friend Zone.
Do not pass "GO"
Do not collect $200.
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Old 09-14-2013, 02:32 PM
 
Location: oakland / berkeley
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Get to know her a little better and ask her out. That's how I met my wife, 10 years ago. College isn't so complicated. It's not foreign affairs.
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Old 09-14-2013, 02:33 PM
 
Location: oakland / berkeley
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PS. There is no such thing as friend zone. No one is entitled to sex just because they're friendly to each other.
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