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Old 09-17-2013, 06:31 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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you trying to get her pregnant?
The next women I get seriously involved with, yes. But I'll cross that bridge when I get there.
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Old 09-17-2013, 06:36 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Never, probably. Men can't be tested for HPV which can give women cancer, so even if everyone is 'tested', STDs can still be spread.

In addition, whose to say your partner won't cheat and give you an STD? It's happened to a few people I've known over the years, and that's how they found out their partner was cheating.

I'll go ahead and keep using condoms.
I whole HPV thing makes me nervous

Also, the cheating.

Using condoms seems to be the safe bet, but I doubt I can do that throughout the entire relationship.
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Old 09-17-2013, 06:38 PM
 
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Not going to happen unless we're trying to get pregnant.
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Old 09-17-2013, 06:43 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Get those condoms that are thin.
Sit down and have a serious talk about it over a long time frame of dating.It's not hard the test. If they care about you they will do it.
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Old 09-17-2013, 06:44 PM
 
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that you stop using protection? or suggest to your partner that you have sex without a condom? or do you just hit it raw from the start, and take a chance?

Personally, I cant stand condoms, but I'm not about to risk my health. I need some type of conformation that she has been checked for any sexual pathogens before the gloves comes off (i.e. recent STD test) Ill go as far as pay for the testing myself (I definitely wont take her word for it) we can even take the test together; which usually happens when I get seriously involved.

Women: please give your thoughts on this as well!
After the post-vasectomy wiggly test for me, to determine I'm sterile, and a lab test history of a year, showing both of us to be disease-free.
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Old 09-17-2013, 06:57 PM
 
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After I'm in the relationship.

If I don't trust her enough not to wrap, I just don't trust her.

I'm sure she will find another man to play along.

No thanks, I'll do without and without HER......


Oh nos, you could get preggers......

Good, at my age that would be a blessing from the man upstairs.
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Old 09-17-2013, 07:09 PM
 
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Had an ex who enjoyed those flavored condoms for a bit. Didn't bother me much, and when she said she enjoyed them, I went to Wal-Mart and bought every flavored condom they had. lol
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Old 09-17-2013, 07:12 PM
 
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P.S. I'll even change my will for her the kid/s.....



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Old 09-17-2013, 07:24 PM
 
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After I'm in the relationship.

If I don't trust her enough not to wrap, I just don't trust her.

I'm sure she will find another man to play along.

No thanks, I'll do without and without HER......


Oh nos, you could get preggers......

Good, at my age that would be a blessing from the man upstairs.
You're 2Rugged4 a condom?
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Old 09-17-2013, 07:28 PM
 
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I don't want to die alone.

I have a will that people will be in a huge fight over......

I don't want that.

Give me a little girl/boy and a wife.

Sorry everybody........
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