Wife or Girlfriend Objects to Porn (separate, attractive, call, feeling)
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IMO, if a woman doesn't object to porn than she's a skank. Porn just has to be the most soul sucking, negative, exploitative, evil garbage there is. It destroys relationships, families, the people who make it and there is NOTHING, not one single thing about it that is good, uplifting, positive, wholesome or decent.
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Repped. Basically, you make any statement about women on this forum their perceive as negative criticism, there will be a dozen female posters on this board, saying, "I'm not like that at all. And neither are none of the women I know. So that means what you're saying is wrong. You must be meeting the wrong women." Example:
Male poster says, "I notice women have cervixes." Then set your watch and in 5...4...3...2...1...a dozen female posters reply, "I don't have a cervix. None of the women I know have a cervix. I don't know where you get this stuff!"
IMO, if a woman doesn't object to porn than she's a skank. Porn just has to be the most soul sucking, negative, exploitative, evil garbage there is. It destroys relationships, families, the people who make it and there is NOTHING, not one single thing about it that is good, uplifting, positive, wholesome or decent.
Obviously not City Data. All the women here are perfect in whichever way fits the thread. No clue how some are single. They are all perfect 10's. Great jobs, no baggage, compromise on EVERYTHING, beautiful, you name it. They got it. Whatever the "in" thing is for the day, they all got it.
You want an underwater basket weaver? Everyone here has their PhD in basket weaving.
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Originally Posted by TheBigGuy
Repped. Basically, you make any statement about women on this forum their perceive as negative criticism, there will be a dozen female posters on this board, saying, "I'm not like that at all. And neither are none of the women I know. So that means what you're saying is wrong. You must be meeting the wrong women." Example:
Male poster says, "I notice women have cervixes." Then set your watch and in 5...4...3...2...1...a dozen female posters reply, "I don't have a cervix. None of the women I know have a cervix. I don't know where you get this stuff!"
So, basically, you guys are saying that you've rarely been with a woman with a good sex drive? Because if MOST women have little to no sex drive, and you are agreeing with him - then I would deduce that you are basing your opinions on your own experiences.
So because I think that "most women have no sex drive" is erroneous - I'm saying that all women on here are perfect? My girlfriends and I used to discuss our sex lives all the time when we were younger - we all had healthy sex drives. I think most of us still do - we just don't discuss sex as much as we used to since most of us are now married. It's a little different discussing your sex life when your friends aren't close with your boyfriend as opposed to discussing your sex life when you've been married for awhile and your friends hang out with your husband.
Are there women who have low or no sex drive? Of course. But MOST women? I highly doubt it.
Personally, I have a pretty darn good sex drive. Am I perfect? Hell no! Oh - and I don't object to porn.
My post was a generalization here.
I know women have high sex drives. I can't even 100% keep up with my gf. She'd leap at the chance if I could give it to her 5x a day.
Ive dated other girls not too far off.
For the reason of her never turning me down and letting me do what I feel like sexually with her, I understand and agree why she objects to porn? Why get myself off when she's 100% willing to at any time?
Male poster says, "I notice women have cervixes." Then set your watch and in 5...4...3...2...1...a dozen female posters reply, "I don't have a cervix. None of the women I know have a cervix. I don't know where you get this stuff!"
lol That cracked me up.
But seriously, maybe it's just that women who don't fit what's being discussed are the ones most likely to respond so it ends up seeming like all women are reactionary fakers.
But seriously, maybe it's just that women who don't fit what's being discussed are the ones most likely to respond so it ends up seeming like all women are reactionary fakers.
I think that's probably why. People tend to respond to what they relate to, or they want to pipe up and defend an incorrect stereotype.
I dont think of porn as much of a big deal, and i dont really bother with it when in a relationship. Most all guys like to watch it at certain stages in their lives, much like I did when I was single. Its really not that much different than women reading romance novels and fantasizing about playing a part. Ease up, ladies - insecurities like this wont bring you anything positive in your relationships.
I personally do not care about my BF watching porn. I told him I can't be mad if I do it also. But we made an agreement to always clear the history after we watch it. It is a personal thing for us. We have watched it together before but that is different from when you are alone. I think most women are so upset by it is because they think you are comparing their bodies and what porn stars do to them. I told my BF I would rather him watch porn than to talk to another girl online.
Personally, I have a think with strip clubs though. Mostly, because his best friend married a stripper he got pregnant. And it just doesn't settle well with me. Also because my friend used to be a stripper and said she slept with the clients all the time.
Point is, can she tell you what to do? Of course. But you don't have to listen. Maybe ask her why she hates it so much? Or ask her if she wants you to come on to her 4 times a week that only lasts 5 minutes and she wouldn't get off. Maybe put it into perspective for her?
My girlfriend and I were discussing porn and women who object to it. She was reading this post on BabyCenter. My question to the men out there, do you think that as a grown man, women should be able to tell you what you can or can not get off to or what you can or can not watch when they're not around?
To me, for example, this is the equivalent to me trying to tell her what she's allowed to think about when she getting off or me banning her from reading books or watching movies that I deem too sexual for her...
Most women object to porn due to their own insecurities about themselves, and they want to be the ONLY ONE their man desires, so they ban men from viewing it. IMO a large part of it is nothing more than CONTROL over someone else, and since porn has all kinds of stigma attached to it its easy to "ban" a grown man from viewing it by simply labeling him a porn addict no matter how much/little he views porn. Now that DOES NOT mean I don't believe men can be addicted to porn. I just think that the "Porn Addict" label is too easily placed on men to shame them into not viewing it. As long as the woman in question objects to it (weather its a true objection, or she just wants to be the only game in town) the man bears the burden to immediately stop the objectionable behavior, or risk putting his relationship in jeopardy.
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