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Old 09-20-2013, 07:57 PM
 
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So I have a class with a girl who I don't have the courage to talk to. I added her on Facebook and she accepted. I tried messaging her and she responds but her answers are cut and dry. I wonder if she made the connection that she has a class with me. Anyway from her responses I assume that she has zero interest in me. Am I correct with that assumption?
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Old 09-20-2013, 08:01 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Ask her if she wants to hang out? She doesn't answer you or unfriends you, then there is your answer.
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Old 09-20-2013, 08:05 PM
 
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You have to ask her out in real life. I have heard and read online many women saying they find a guy who asks them out online to be creepy. Although some women may say they don't find it creepy, in all honesty, asking a woman out in real life is the best anyway.
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Old 09-20-2013, 08:09 PM
 
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Here is the conversation:
Me: What's Up
Her: Just sitting in class.
Me: Cool I just got out of my last class.
Her. Ohh Okay.
Me: What class are you in?
Her: Finance
Me: I took that last semester
Her: Oh Okay.

After that I just gave up because to me her responses just scream I have zero interest in you...
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Old 09-20-2013, 08:15 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Here is the conversation:
Me: What's Up
Her: Just sitting in class.
Me: Cool I just got out of my last class.
Her. Ohh Okay.
Me: What class are you in?
Her: Finance
Me: I took that last semester
Her: Oh Okay.

After that I just gave up because to me her responses just scream I have zero interest in you...
You didn't do any better! Lol!

Try-Omg yes that class was so rough. Who do you have? I had him! He has a rug that moves! Noway! Yes way! Laugh laugh. ..Sooo what other classes do you have? Do you need many? Hey if you want we can study together?



That's a conversation!
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Old 09-20-2013, 08:27 PM
 
Location: On the corner of Grey Street
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She doesn't seem interested to me...maybe she doesn't know who you are.

Not to be rude, but guys these days seem to be total pansies about talking to women. What's wrong with introducing yourself or saying hello? Asking her a question about the class and seeing how she reacts? I would not be too keen on a guy who did not have the courage to speak to me in person and sent me FB messages instead.
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Old 09-20-2013, 08:36 PM
 
Location: Northern Virginia
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Originally Posted by thatguyoverther View Post
Here is the conversation:
Me: What's Up
Her: Just sitting in class.
Me: Cool I just got out of my last class.
Her. Ohh Okay.
Me: What class are you in?
Her: Finance
Me: I took that last semester
Her: Oh Okay.

After that I just gave up because to me her responses just scream I have zero interest in you...
You are not really engaging her in conversation either, and might want to add some question marks to your questions. :-) I would drop talking to somebody who messaged me this way. You are making statements instead of facilitating dialogue.
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Old 09-20-2013, 10:26 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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So I have a class with a girl who I don't have the courage to talk to. I added her on Facebook and she accepted. I tried messaging her and she responds but her answers are cut and dry. I wonder if she made the connection that she has a class with me. Anyway from her responses I assume that she has zero interest in me. Am I correct with that assumption?
Get some and talk to her directly.

[the ambiguity is the result of you being indirect]
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Old 09-20-2013, 10:34 PM
 
Location: The Puget Sound
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Stop being a chickensh*t and say hi to her next time you see her.
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Old 09-20-2013, 11:51 PM
 
Location: Monterey, CALIFORNIA
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one word advice here: DONT
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