Will I look desperate? (woman, couple, average, interested)
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A couple of months ago I was seeing a girl and she sort of broke it off with me, from what I thought was in anger. Now in my experience, when you break up with someone in anger usually the person who did the breaking up, comes back and apologizes. I however never heard from her again, and never reached out to her either because I did not feel like I should, since she was the one who pretty much ended it. So I can't help but think she had wanted to break up for a while, and the arguement we were having gave her that out, especially since she was the one to start the argument in the first place. Anyway from time to time I think about her, and was wondering if I should contact her or would I look desperate?
A couple of months ago I was seeing a girl and she sort of broke it off with me, from what I thought was in anger. Now in my experience, when you break up with someone in anger usually the person who did the breaking up, comes back and apologizes. I however never heard from her again, and never reached out to her either because I did not feel like I should, since she was the one who pretty much ended it. So I can't help but think she had wanted to break up for a while, and the arguement we were having gave her that out, especially since she was the one to start the argument in the first place. Anyway from time to time I think about her, and was wondering if I should contact her or would I look desperate?
The bolded is a huge indicator. Based on how it ended, I wouldn't contact her if I were you.
It is probably best to let that one go.
The bolded is a huge indicator. Based on how it ended, I wouldn't contact her if I were you.
It is probably best to let that one go.
Well the only reason I think she wanted to break for a while was because of that silly argument she started. But I guess you're right, also in the beginning I didn't think she was all that interested, but then she seemed to get more interested as time went by.
Now in my experience, when you break up with someone in anger usually the person who did the breaking up, comes back and apologizes. I however never heard from her again, and never reached out to her either because I did not feel like I should, since she was the one who pretty much ended it.
Why would someone who broke up with you come back and apologize? You're broken up. It's done.
Well it's been about 4 or 5 months, is that really too early?
Try two or three years. I'm not kidding you.
Rather than spend your time pining after this woman who obviously pushed you away (Why? The world wants to know), try getting out there and not thinking about her.
A couple of months ago I was seeing a girl and she sort of broke it off with me, from what I thought was in anger. Now in my experience, when you break up with someone in anger usually the person who did the breaking up, comes back and apologizes. I however never heard from her again, and never reached out to her either because I did not feel like I should, since she was the one who pretty much ended it. So I can't help but think she had wanted to break up for a while, and the arguement we were having gave her that out, especially since she was the one to start the argument in the first place. Anyway from time to time I think about her, and was wondering if I should contact her or would I look desperate?
"she sort of broke it off"? Sounds like she DID. I'd be weirded out if someone I broke up with 4 or 5 months ago contacted me asking me why.
She moved on and she's most likely not thinking about you. For your peace of mind, you should, too.
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