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Absolutely not. Any girl who gives me a hard time just because will be dumped right on the spot. I will not have that after spending 8 hours a day getting a hard time over BS.
Are you sure you read the op correctly?
It's about flirting and teasing playfully, not about b*tching and nagging.
By that I mean calling them out on their bs, giving them a hard time jokingly when flirting etc. I know I like it when guys do that and it seems like every guy I know likes that too. Want to hear more in detail on that from guys.
You have to be careful with it.
Different people have different sense of humor.
You may think it's fun and flirty, even though really it is excessive.
It kind of like sarcasm. Some people use sarcasm excessively to passive aggressively poke the bear. But when the bear gets angry or frustrated, "oh calm down, I was just joking."
If this is your thing, then find a guy that can handle it constantly. Some guys cant handle it constantly. And the guys who can't, it kind of pisses them off.
But if a guy is totally bs'ing all the time, then by all means, call him out. But 'teasing' a guy constantly is not fun.
I dated someone a few months ago. She was cool, we had some fun. But halfway through the first date she started teasing me with various stuff. At first I would laugh it off, haha, whatever, she's being feisty. Then I stopped laughing, as it became a regular exchange with her. It was like she was belittling me every 30 minutes or so.
After I realized that the behavior was who she was, and she wasnt doing this cause of nervousness (3-4 dates and lots of texting), i stopped dating her. It was a personality clash, and if she wasn' able to read that her teasing was excessive, then I wasn't going to try to change her. I dealt with passive aggressiveness before, and I didnt enjoy it. NEXT!
By that I mean calling them out on their bs, giving them a hard time jokingly when flirting etc. I know I like it when guys do that and it seems like every guy I know likes that too. Want to hear more in detail on that from guys.
It fine i can take a joke ,but only because i am down to earth and try not to be pretentious .
Most woman cant take a joke it because they do not get it or it to ostentatious for them.
Many of the guys I've been with love that I bust their chops and like someone said, can dish it out as well as I can take it, but I was also with some who were just kind of straight shooters and it didn't feel natural to be playful with them in that way. I feel like I've met more of the former though.
If it's just joking, giving someone crap, it's ok.
If I trip and a girl says some silly crap like, "Oh have a nice trip?" or "See you next fall." That's fine.
Nagging? No!
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