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Old 10-16-2013, 12:27 PM
 
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well technically i am not in a relationship per say more like friendship but we've been talking for a lil over 2 years now without meeting eachother and he told me that he loves me.. i am thinking as a friend right or maybe a online sister? i really do like him butright now i am unemployeed and obese and living at home. he new this when we first began talking and i have imporved alittle but not much.

i mean i dont know how long it will take for me to beomce datable or attractive..and this is the only guy ihave ever liked. he hasn't come to see me and nor hav i him but i think it is fair. i wouldn't want him to see me like this anyway.

he live all the way in saskatoon. he's a cool guy and i would like to able to try and meet him once before he totaly lose intrests in talking to me.
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Old 10-16-2013, 01:14 PM
 
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well technically i am not in a relationship per say more like friendship but we've been talking for a lil over 2 years now without meeting eachother and he told me that he loves me.. i am thinking as a friend right or maybe a online sister? i really do like him butright now i am unemployeed and obese and living at home. he new this when we first began talking and i have imporved alittle but not much.

i mean i dont know how long it will take for me to beomce datable or attractive..and this is the only guy ihave ever liked. he hasn't come to see me and nor hav i him but i think it is fair. i wouldn't want him to see me like this anyway.

he live all the way in saskatoon. he's a cool guy and i would like to able to try and meet him once before he totaly lose intrests in talking to me.

a guy you never met in the flesh claims he loves you ?

is that correct
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Old 10-16-2013, 01:30 PM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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and you don't want this guy (who claims to love you) to see you 'like this'... but you want to meet him?
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Old 10-16-2013, 03:32 PM
 
Location: Scotland (I wish)
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My mom met my dad online and they got married, but of met each other first a few times. He came from Sweden to Canada. What I found super crazy was that they dated before meeting each other! But it was a Christian relationship... Ok, I still its crazy. Also, it was like over 10 yrs ago and prob safer to do than now.
I briefly considered dating before meeting. We skyped, talked on the phone too. But there was a language barrier and I knew even in person, I would never date him bcuz everything I said, he would generally respond with "that's ok." And he was always pushing for a relationship, and I wondered "why is dating so important? Why can't we just be friends? Why does it always have to come to dating or nothing at all?" Anyway, blah blah blah.
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Old 10-16-2013, 03:34 PM
 
Location: Scotland (I wish)
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Sorry- my mom met my step dad online. I was around 9 or 10 yrs old at the time.
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Old 10-16-2013, 03:35 PM
 
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a guy you never met in the flesh claims he loves you ?

is that correct
Over two years is a long long time. More than MOST who date.
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Old 10-16-2013, 03:47 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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well technically i am not in a relationship per say more like friendship but we've been talking for a lil over 2 years now without meeting eachother and he told me that he loves me.. i am thinking as a friend right or maybe a online sister? i really do like him butright now i am unemployeed and obese and living at home. he new this when we first began talking and i have imporved alittle but not much.

i mean i dont know how long it will take for me to beomce datable or attractive..and this is the only guy ihave ever liked. he hasn't come to see me and nor hav i him but i think it is fair. i wouldn't want him to see me like this anyway.

he live all the way in saskatoon. he's a cool guy and i would like to able to try and meet him once before he totaly lose intrests in talking to me.
Then why don't you improve?

This advice is easy to give: Eat less, work more? And then meet him?
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Old 10-16-2013, 03:51 PM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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Is this guy in jail or something? I don't mean to sound harsh but a guy you never met but have been talking to online for 2 years says he loves you and now you're saying you want to try to meet him once before he loses interest in talking to you??? Does he know that you're unemployed and obese?

Haven't either of you exchanged pictures or anything?

I don't know where Saskatoon is or how far it is from you.
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Old 10-16-2013, 05:23 PM
 
Location: Pa
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*passing the beer around*
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Old 10-16-2013, 05:29 PM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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