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Hi everyone, I dated this guy like 2 years ago for 8mths. He basically was afraid of commitment at that time. He moved to Cali and left me like I was nothing. He cruised me,broke my heart into a thousand pieces! Now after 2years and some months later he reaches out to me, first on twitter. I never responded so then he called me. I freaked out completely, " why in the hell are you calling my phone" etc. I hung up the phone and then a few more months past and now he has called again. He was basically very apologetic and told me everything I already knew, he was wrong I was the best thing that ever happen to him blah blah. He'll be in my city in few mths and wants to see me. What should I do guys? I've never stopped caring for him. We had an awesome time together and we have numerous things in common. I'm so afraid of being hurt again, and that feeling still haunts me to this day. Please be honest with me.
Hi everyone, I dated this guy like 2 years ago for 8mths. He basically was afraid of commitment at that time. He moved to Cali and left me like I was nothing. He cruised me,broke my heart into a thousand pieces! Now after 2years and some months later he reaches out to me, first on twitter. I never responded so then he called me. I freaked out completely, " why in the hell are you calling my phone" etc. I hung up the phone and then a few more months past and now he has called again. He was basically very apologetic and told me everything I already knew, he was wrong I was the best thing that ever happen to him blah blah. He'll be in my city in few mths and wants to see me. What should I do guys? I've never stopped caring for him. We had an awesome time together and we have numerous things in common. I'm so afraid of being hurt again, and that feeling still haunts me to this day. Please be honest with me.
You'll just get hurt again. Very rarely do guys just come back because they regret "leaving" you.
"Hey, I'm so sorry for what I did to you. I was an idiot. I want to make it up to you, I'll be in town for a few days in a few months. I want to spend time with you."
Translation: He wants to keep you available for sex.
Hmmm I haven't asked him any of these things. Honestly while we were on the phone I didn't say much. I just gave an occasional "uh huh". He asked if I had a bf, but I didn't ask him. I thought I'd save all those questions for our in person outing.
He just said that he would like us to be in contact more often. He said he would like to see me. I don't know if he has a gf or not. I looked at his fb,twitter, and instagram and I haven't seen any pictures of the same consistent woman, so I guess that may be a good sign.
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