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Old 11-02-2013, 11:10 AM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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I'm a b-tch, I'm a lover, I'm a child, I'm a mother
I'm a sinner, I'm a saint, I do not feel ashamed
I'm your hell, I'm your dream, I'm nothing in between
You know you wouldn't want it any other way

So take me as I am
This may mean you'll have to be a stronger man
Rest assured that when I start to make you nervous
And I'm going to extremes
Tomorrow I will change and today won't mean a thing


-- Alanis Morrissette

 
Old 11-02-2013, 11:13 AM
 
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Originally Posted by Collateral View Post
You don't seem to grasp what I'm saying. Women are not "mystifying" to me at all.

Also I never said this is a "be all end all" view. I never used the word "ALL" because I'm fully aware that some women will deviate from these behaviors. However, most women I've known and most women I observed are not honest in their sexual relationships.

I've already stated that I am not complaining.. nore do I have any problems attracting or dating women. In the future, please read EVERYTHING before you respond. It saves us all a lot of time.
I did, actually. Right now you're Smug Guy #3 straight out of central casting, the guy who confuses a lot of bed partners with success with women. Look, I realize you're young and all, but the sooner you discard theories that try to define an entire gender, the relationship equivalent of the Unified Field Theory, the better off you'll be.
 
Old 11-02-2013, 11:16 AM
 
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Originally Posted by jaypee View Post
I'm a b-tch, I'm a lover, I'm a child, I'm a mother
I'm a sinner, I'm a saint, I do not feel ashamed
I'm your hell, I'm your dream, I'm nothing in between
You know you wouldn't want it any other way
So take me as I am
This may mean you'll have to be a stronger man
Rest assured that when I start to make you nervous
And I'm going to extremes
Tomorrow I will change and today won't mean a thing

-- Alanis Morrissette
That's my personal theme song.
 
Old 11-02-2013, 11:17 AM
 
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Originally Posted by cpg35223 View Post
Okay. Whenever I see a post that has the phrase "Most women" or "Most men," I know that I'm encountering someone who is naive about the subject.
That's putting it politely. I just write the person off as a hater.

But as apparently this gender-bashing thread is allowed, I'll tell the OP the truth: You don't know what you are talking about, and your generalization is disgusting and nothing more than thinly veiled misogyny. That clear enough for you? That open and honest enough for you?
 
Old 11-02-2013, 11:20 AM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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That's my personal theme song.
Cool, I think the song is called "I'm High Maintenance".


 
Old 11-02-2013, 11:24 AM
 
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Cool, I think the song is called "I'm High Maintenance".


I call it multi-faceted.
 
Old 11-02-2013, 11:24 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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Also I never said this is a "be all end all" view. I never used the word "ALL" because I'm fully aware that some women will deviate from these behaviors. However, most women I've known and most women I observed are not honest in their sexual relationships.
What people are trying to say is that this has much more to do with the kind of women you associate with than with women in general. It's more than just *some* women who are honest people.
 
Old 11-02-2013, 11:36 AM
 
Location: Central Florida
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I believe most people think they are honest. Few see themselves from other peoples perspectives.

I do have to object to the OP including "omission" as being dishonest. Exactly how does that work? You're going to conclude a woman is dishonest because she can't read your mind to tell you what you want to know? Seems a bit unreasonable, IMO.

If you ask a question, and she lies about it, you can call her dishonest. Otherwise, you're just looking for a flaw that isn't there.
 
Old 11-02-2013, 11:38 AM
 
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You sound upset.

I'm just talking from my own life experience. We all shape our beliefs and opinions about the world from our experiences. How else? I can only have beliefs about women based on what I've experienced in dealing with them. When I have different experiences then by beliefs will change.
But really, come on. How much experience do you really have with women? Your post has all the hallmarks of someone who gets 100% of his relationship info from porn and bodybuilding.com
 
Old 11-02-2013, 11:53 AM
 
Location: Europe
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The ones who are honest, does, the ones who are not , only lies.
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