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Once I get college done and get a job my life will change for the better. Then i will feel better about my self and where i am going in life.
Who told you that that's how it works?
Do you understand that college is when you're suppose to hone your skills?
You're going to graduate from college and be even more awkward, bitter and angry at women. You'll marry the first girl that'll have you and you'll live a miserable life. Bet. BET!
You didn't do her any favor by pretending you are still a couple while she is pregnant. You should have been clear to her from the beginning that you were not interested. Now she thinks you are a couple and in love and she's going to have a baby and you'll be this wonderful family together, when the reality is quite different. Most women want the father of their baby to be in the delivery room. I think many men are really glad when they do see the birth of their child, it is a once in a life experience with that child. I am sure she could use all the support she can get during that time. Don't lead her on any more than you already have. After the baby is born make your intentions, or lack thereof, clear to her.
my child arrived just the other day, he came in the world in the usual way, but there were planes to catch and bills to pay, he learned to walk while i was away, and he was talkin before i knew it and as he grew, he said i'm gonna be like you dad, you know im gonna be like you.
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my child arrived just the other day, he came in the world in the usual way, but there were planes to catch and bills to pay, he learned to walk while i was away, and he was talkin before i knew it and as he grew, he said i'm gonna be like you dad, you know im gonna be like you.
My "girlfriend" is pregnant and she can go into labour at anytime now. The pregnancy was never meant to happen.
She was just a nice hot girl I met once during a work trip, found out she was on a work trip as well and we were from the same city. I started banging her but I though she was aware it was nothing more than a casual fling. Apparently she was naive enough to think we were "in love". I kept sleeping with other women throughout the whole time obviously.
Long story short, I got careless once or twice and by the time I wanted to break up with her, she was pregnant. She thought I would over the moon with the news but I tried to convince her to get an abortion because we barely knew each other. She was horrified by the idea, said no way and went ahead with the pregnancy.
I'll obviously have to take a paternity test after the baby boy is born, I'm quite sure it's mine but still...anyway, that's another story.
I decided not to break up with her while she was pregnant and she thinks we are a couple. Now she's mad at me because I don't want to be with her during the birth. I told her I'm not comfortable with the setting, that she can perfectly have her mother with her but she even cried yesterday, saying I was insensitive.
It just doesn't make sense for me to be there when I know we are not together and I will ter her I've been seeing other women after the baby is born.
You THOUGHT she was aware? Why? Did you spell it out for her? Did you tell her you weren't exclusive and that you were "banging other girls"?
I'm guessing....not so much. You just kept stringing her along.
You sound like a real dick.
I don't know why everyone is down on the OP - when you offer a man free easy sex he is going to take it. And since the reality is, it is the woman who bears the highest burden of producing offspring, it is up to her to protect herself. Sure, we can sit around shaming the guy for not "stepping up" but at the end of the day he really does not have to do anything other than provide money (and lots of guys get around that if they can). This is why the so-called "double standard" exists when it comes to casual sex between men and women. Women pay the higher price and therefore must protect their assets, in this case an ovum. She didn't protect it so now she is left holding the bag and he gets to walk. Is this unfair? Yep! But life isn't fair. This is the way things have been since the beginning of time and our modern day attempts at changing basic biology is a failure hence the high number of single mothers out there.
You THOUGHT she was aware? Why? Did you spell it out for her? Did you tell her you weren't exclusive and that you were "banging other girls"?
I'm guessing....not so much. You just kept stringing her along.
You sound like a real dick.
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my child arrived just the other day, he came in the world in the usual way, but there were planes to catch and bills to pay, he learned to walk while i was away, and he was talkin before i knew it and as he grew, he said i'm gonna be like you dad, you know im gonna be like you.
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I kept sleeping with other women throughout the whole time obviously.
