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Two dates in two weeks. Both dates were initiated by him, he drove to me ( we live 30 miles apart), picked me up and dopped me off and paid for our dates. He texts me every other day ( all texts initiated by him). After date 1 and 2, he sent me a text saying he had a good time and hopefully to see me again soon. He already planning what to do for our next date. Hes into arts so he would like me to go to a museum with him.. Also, he asked me to go with him to his company's christmas party. He told me the date ahead of time so I could make myself available to go.
He shows signs of interests but is it normal that after two dates, he hasn't attempted to hold my hand or kiss me. Is that good or bad?
Maybe you're giving mixed signals to him and he doesn't want to scare you off. Why don't you try holding his hand and initiating the kiss? There's no rule that it's the guys job. This day and age at least.
Well...then you can't really complain that it hasn't happened. It takes two to tango. You don't have to lean in and kiss him, but why not touch his arm or put your hand on his knee or something?
Im not complaining. Im just wondering if its something unusual or if he only thinks of me as a friend or hes not that into me. But if hes into me and he's just shy or being a gentleman, afraid to mess things up or maybe just waiting for the right moment to do it and want us to get to know each other well first Im cool with that.
No nothing abnormal. Sounds like to me that he just wants to be a respectful gentlemen Give it a few more dates. Better than a guy who can't keep his hands off of you on the first date!
If you want it to move in that direction then you may have to let him know. I am naturally very expressive and affectionate if there's mutual attraction/chemistry. I have absolutely no problem making the first move in such situations.
Do people really wait until a few dates before kissing? Yeah, that's a no-go for me. I don't go on dates where there isn't at least some attraction or chemistry, where a kiss would not happen. I've been on two dates where there was no kissing. Kissing is damn important. I need to know if we're on the same page before going much further. A bad kisser is a deal-breaker for sure.
Do people really wait until a few dates before kissing? Yeah, that's a no-go for me. I don't go on dates where there isn't at least some attraction or chemistry, where a kiss would not happen. I've been on two dates where there was no kissing. Kissing is damn important. I need to know if we're on the same page before going much further. A bad kisser is a deal-breaker for sure.
Would you rather have a guy say hey i like you want to bang on a second date?
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Give it a few more dates. Better than a guy who can't keep his hands off of you on the first date!
