Virgin: Would it be a "problem" for you? (married, women)
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So i read in another thread about someone being a virgin when they got married, which lead me to think. If you met someone in their mid 20s or early 30s that was a virgin, would that be a problem for you?
So i read in another thread about someone being a virgin when they got married, which lead me to think. If you met someone in their mid 20s or early 30s that was a virgin, would that be a problem for you?
Not really. Then again, I'm a low-count woman and a Don Juan is what I don't want as a potential bf. No thanks. Between him or virgin, I'll go for virgin. Another reason: I don't care about him being a master in bed and I think as long as I love him and enjoy his company (as well the other aspects besides sex) is all that matters.
The only thing I would have a hard time dealing is if his major reason for being a virgin was because he was a religious fanatic. Otherwise, it's not bad.
So i read in another thread about someone being a virgin when they got married, which lead me to think. If you met someone in their mid 20s or early 30s that was a virgin, would that be a problem for you?
It wouldn't be a problem for me. I understand that some people just didn't have time to get laid.
Not really. Then again, I'm a low-count woman and a Don Juan is what I don't want as a potential bf. No thanks. Between him or virgin, I'll go for virgin. Another reason: I don't care about him being a master in bed and I think as long as I love him and enjoy his company (as well the other aspects besides sex) is all that matters.
The only thing I would have a hard time dealing is if his major reason for being a virgin was because he was a religious fanatic. Otherwise, it's not bad.
I think someone that has slept with another person, and someone that's slept with many people are different.
I think someone that has slept with another person, and someone that's slept with many people are different.
I might have a problem with the second....
Yes, to me that's indeed a big difference but I'm surprised some men don't understand that. They don't get that we also can be selective too and do mind. Not all of us likes the second. The surprised reaction when we do mind and yet told to just get over it and that it's in the past...LOL
My initial response would be a resounding "No" to a 30 yo old virgin. I would automatically think they were frigid or incapable of becoming a good lover. But, on the flip side there are a couple of men and women here that have fit that profile currently or in the past that made me rethink the absolute position of avoidance.
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