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Old 12-06-2013, 09:45 PM
 
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I am curious if many men here have experience being physically assaulted by a woman they were dating? Did it change your relationship or your feelings towards her? Did you end the relationship because of it?

BTW - I have never hit a man.
Context matters. I have never been violently hit or slapped with malice by a woman, BUT I have been playfully slapped on my behind more than a few times

Those pleasant playful sneaky kind like after coming out of a shower or cooking in the kitchen>
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Old 12-06-2013, 09:49 PM
 
Location: SNA=>PDX 2013
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I'm a woman, but I'll tell you what happened as we talked about it enough that I know his side of it.

I slapped my ex, pretty damned hard too. I would have punched him, but I knew a slap is more disrespectful to most men. In my defense, he knew he deserved it and well, I basically had a mental breakdown that day.

A few days later after dealing with a lot more important things between us and with myself (we didn't break up), I apologized, he said he deserved it. Our relationship continued and we didn't need to discuss it again. We both knew exactly why it happened and we both put it behind us almost as soon as it happened.

Can't say I'd ever do it again. Hopefully I'll never have a breakdown like that ever agaim. It was like the perfect storm.
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Old 12-07-2013, 03:46 AM
 
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Where on earth do you guys meet those crazy women? In all my 26 years, I have never seen a woman being that cruel enough to go for a groin kick for no reason. I must be either in a well-brought up environment or not too many violent ones here.
I'm with you except double the age. Holy crap.
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Old 12-07-2013, 03:48 AM
 
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I'm big and don't really bruise so sometimes it's fun
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Old 12-07-2013, 06:03 AM
 
Location: Phoenix Arizona
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I never have been slapped in the face or assaulted by a woman before however I do make it perfectly clear that if they slap me or kick me or punch me in any way that isn't warranted then I reserve the right to hit them back especially if they try to attack my privates. Equal rights indeed.
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Old 12-07-2013, 06:20 AM
 
Location: SGV, CA
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My ex girlfriend threw her glass of water at me when I told her I wanted to break up. Amazingly I managed to reflexively catch the cup but all the water spilled on me. Suffice to say any woman who feels it's okay to hit a man for any reason other than self defense is not a woman I would want to be with.
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Old 12-07-2013, 06:31 AM
 
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Where on earth do you guys meet those crazy women? In all my 26 years, I have never seen a woman being that cruel enough to go for a groin kick for no reason. I must be either in a well-brought up environment or not too many violent ones here.
that was my wonderment as well...

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I'm big and don't really bruise so sometimes it's fun
LoL...not exactly sure how being slapped, punched, or hit could be fun, (well unless it's those playful smacks like someone else mentioned) but each to there own...
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Old 12-07-2013, 07:03 AM
 
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Yep
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Old 12-07-2013, 07:07 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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When I was 14years old, I was assaulted by a mom; she caught me and her daughter having sex in her living room.

I had to walk home naked, no shoes just a shirt (seriously) it was summer and the pavement was hot fawk! Lol
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Old 12-07-2013, 07:29 AM
 
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I dated a girl a few years ago that liked things rough, and thought it was hilarious that she could punch me in the face as hard as she could and I'd smile at her. She had plenty of issues as you can probably imagine so the relationship didnt last long but it was fun while it lasted

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LoL...not exactly sure how being slapped, punched, or hit could be fun, (well unless it's those playful smacks like someone else mentioned) but each to there own...
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