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Do anyone of you that practice picks at these "prime milf" locations and give others this advice blindly really and trully believe that the success rates are that high for the average dude?
Im just curious as anything in life, there are always these suggestions thrown around just like in fitness- guys say "just start lifting heavy weights, eat high protein- low carb" to get big without even providing any sort of program and or consideration for that individual's genetic threshold. Most of the time these guys are on this "continuous bulk" and can never take their shirts off in public but swear by their advice.
So finally, those that get lucky with picks at super markets, are you also the type that can draw attention upon you almost anywhere? Have you an account of success rates of your given advice?
Not undermining anyone's abilities, Im just trying to see if it really works. I don't practice because it doesn't work for me. I need to cultivate some familiarity even if it for at least 20 minutes.
My theory is that you can pick up on chicks that are impressed by you anywhere. I'd say that anyone who is getting the babes at Starbucks can also get them at the library, or the pool, or wherever.
It's not going to work every time, or not even half the time. It might work 1/12 of the time. But if you do nothing, that 1 in 12 success is one you'll never have. But the point isn't to go into the coffee shop or grocery store with the idea you're going to pick someone up. The idea is to get used to being friendly to people in general, and then if one of your passing-the-time type of chats bears fruit, so much the better. If chatting people up is a reflexive thing, your chances of sparking something with someone will be greater than if you do nothing. And no harm done the other times when nothing more than a friendly chat is sparked. You can meet some interesting characters that way.
It's not going to work every time, or not even half the time. It might work 1/12 of the time. But if you do nothing, that 1 in 12 success is one you'll never have. But the point isn't to go into the coffee shop or grocery store with the idea you're going to pick someone up. The idea is to get used to being friendly to people in general, and then if one of your passing-the-time type of chats bears fruit, so much the better. If chatting people up is a reflexive thing, your chances of sparking something with someone will be greater than if you do nothing. And no harm done the other times when nothing more than a friendly chat is sparked. You can meet some interesting characters that way.
My theory is that you can pick up on chicks that are impressed by you anywhere. I'd say that anyone who is getting the babes at Starbucks can also get them at the library, or the pool, or wherever.
Yea, I agree. Typically the hottest guy in the room, no matter where he is at will be the guy to pull this off.
If you aren't the hottest guy in the room, you better have thick skin, and you better be extremely witty with a great personality.
It's not going to work every time, or not even half the time. It might work 1/12 of the time. But if you do nothing, that 1 in 12 success is one you'll never have. But the point isn't to go into the coffee shop or grocery store with the idea you're going to pick someone up. The idea is to get used to being friendly to people in general, and then if one of your passing-the-time type of chats bears fruit, so much the better. If chatting people up is a reflexive thing, your chances of sparking something with someone will be greater than if you do nothing. And no harm done the other times when nothing more than a friendly chat is sparked. You can meet some interesting characters that way.
Exactly, I see your point and far too often guys ask where is a great place to meet women in a specific city and the same old advice is given- at super markets, library, etc... So, with that advice, you would have to assume the guy asking would go specifically on the hunt to those locations... So that is why I question the "whole blind advice". Like I said, i prefer time and even if its 20 minutes to build.
Yea, I agree. Typically the hottest guy in the room, no matter where he is at will be the guy to pull this off.
If you aren't the hottest guy in the room, you better have thick skin, and you better be extremely witty with a great personality.
Otherwise
Bro, you are spot on. But it just baffles at how on the other end, many guys- including on CD will give the whole starbucks advice and just walk away. It doesn't make sense....
I have been seeing it for a while now and Im like, that is the worst advice to give to someone without even knowing his personal capabilities. I just really hate lazy advice. That is all.
Yea, I agree. Typically the hottest guy in the room, no matter where he is at will be the guy to pull this off.
If you aren't the hottest guy in the room, you better have thick skin, and you better be extremely witty with a great personality.
It's not going to work every time, or not even half the time. It might work 1/12 of the time. But if you do nothing, that 1 in 12 success is one you'll never have. But the point isn't to go into the coffee shop or grocery store with the idea you're going to pick someone up. The idea is to get used to being friendly to people in general, and then if one of your passing-the-time type of chats bears fruit, so much the better. If chatting people up is a reflexive thing, your chances of sparking something with someone will be greater than if you do nothing. And no harm done the other times when nothing more than a friendly chat is sparked. You can meet some interesting characters that way.
But Ruth! You have to know your odds before you leave the house. And how they change based on what color you are wearing, the moon phase and the time of day!
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