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Old 12-15-2013, 06:12 PM
 
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I'm not sure that I've seen these posts. That would be an odd thing for anyone to assume. Do you have links to any of them?
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All that comes to mind for me is when a man is already in a committed relationship with a woman that they can reasonably expect sex from and the woman, for one reason or another, is continually not meeting this need. Then, and only then, can I reason that the man might turn to pornography.
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Look mate, if it wasn't for porn, I wouldn't have had any form of sexual release/orgasm since I was 13. Can you imagine a man going 9 years w/o any form of release?
Those are from the last page of the other current porn thread. Note the equating of masturbation and porn.

If you want more you will have to do your own googling .
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Old 12-15-2013, 06:18 PM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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Thats a big key. I've dated a girl that watched as much as me.
I've dated women who have watched it more than I do. (They're certainly the exception, in my experience, but they do exist.) They were generally rather great sex partners, I can say that much.
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Old 12-15-2013, 06:20 PM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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Those are from the last page of the other current porn thread. Note the equating of masturbation and porn.

If you want more you will have to do your own googling .
Interesting. Yeah, that second one does indeed seem to be saying that porn is required for masturbation, which is just bizarre. (I hadn't noticed it in the other thread. Perhaps I'm getting better at tuning out the rubbish from these dudes.) The first one I don't interpret that way, though.
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Old 12-15-2013, 06:21 PM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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Look mate, if it wasn't for porn, I wouldn't have had any form of sexual release/orgasm since I was 13. Can you imagine a man going 9 years w/o any form of release?

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I can't imagine a man being so dependent on porn he can't ejaculate without it!
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Old 12-15-2013, 06:23 PM
 
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Plenty of men masturbate without porn. Your post almost sounds as though that's impossible, i.e. that men need porn in order to facilitate masturbation.
This. Hell a guy could go to the beach and find stimuli. Nila you're making far too much of a big deal about porn.
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Old 12-15-2013, 06:25 PM
 
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I think that's how a lot of women feel, and a lot of men get confused by it.

When a woman expresses discomfort with her guy watching a lot of porn, sometimes the guy thinks she is not enthusiastic about him masturbating. But I think for most women the two have nothing at all to do with each other.

She wants him to get off whenever he feels like it, with or without her, but since she usually doesn't use porn when she masturbates it does not occur to her that he might think the two are connected.

I've seen this conversation play out so many times with my friends. Have some of you had the same experience?

Men, what happens when you try to masturbate without visual stimulation? (Please try to keep your answers PG-13.) Maybe us ladies need to understand.

Unbelieveable that someone thinks this is an appropriate topic that needs to be shared with everyone.
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Old 12-15-2013, 06:34 PM
 
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This. Hell a guy could go to the beach and find stimuli. Nila you're making far too much of a big deal about porn.

Me?? I'm just responding to the hundreds of other posts here on the topic, and trying to bring two opposing sides together.

I'm not the one writing the hundreds of posts .
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Old 12-15-2013, 06:34 PM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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Unbelieveable that someone thinks this is an appropriate topic that needs to be shared with everyone.
Meh...You have a rather low threshold for "unbelievable." It's a relationship forum. This is an issue in some people's relationships, therefore it's relevant.
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Old 12-15-2013, 07:01 PM
 
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Meh...You have a rather low threshold for "unbelievable." It's the internet. This is an issue in some people's relationships, therefore it's relevant.
Fixed it for you.
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Old 12-15-2013, 07:43 PM
 
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I think that's how a lot of women feel, and a lot of men get confused by it.

When a woman expresses discomfort with her guy watching a lot of porn, sometimes the guy thinks she is not enthusiastic about him masturbating. But I think for most women the two have nothing at all to do with each other.

She wants him to get off whenever he feels like it, with or without her, but since she usually doesn't use porn when she masturbates it does not occur to her that he might think the two are connected.

I've seen this conversation play out so many times with my friends. Have some of you had the same experience?

Men, what happens when you try to masturbate without visual stimulation? (Please try to keep your answers PG-13.) Maybe us ladies need to understand.
Why is it that most of your OP's always seem to be missing what it is you are trying to say or missing part of it? So ill ask, what is your opposition to the porn part? And why do you know care about the masturbation part?
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