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I just came back from a short weekend trip with a guy Im dating for two months. We had a great time. Now Im sure that I want to be in a relationship with this guy. I used to have doubts ( deciding between two guys) . How do I bring it up to him that I want a relationship in a way that I wont scare him off? Im not really good with the relationship talk and I dont like asking questions in that nature. Please help!
Well, first you need to know how HE feels about it.
Im really bad at this. Ive been wanting to ask him but I just couldnt make myself do it. We spent time from friday till sunday. I didnt bring it up and now I hate myself for not doing it. I think hes into me because he was happy spending the whole weekend with me right? I dont know what to do. I dont want to just assume that were together eventho it feels like we are.
I just came back from a short weekend trip with a guy Im dating for two months. We had a great time. Now Im sure that I want to be in a relationship with this guy. I used to have doubts ( deciding between two guys) . How do I bring it up to him that I want a relationship in a way that I wont scare him off? Im not really good with the relationship talk and I dont like asking questions in that nature. Please help!
If you can't talk to him openly and honestly right now about relationships you may want to rethink this.
Being in a good relationship takes honesty, trust and OPEN communication, the ability to listen, talk openly and honestly and compromise but still be able to state your feelings openly and honestly.
Why are you so worried about this? When you want to know, what causes you to hesitate about just asking him? What are you afraid might happen?
Just say that, to him.
Im not good in communicating my feelings and talking about relationships. I dont feel comfortable talking about those things. Im more into showing it than talking about it. It sucks because I cant express how Im feeling in words. Im talking about face to face communication. Im thinking of maybe saying it by text or email.
If you can't talk to him openly and honestly right now about relationships you may want to rethink this.
Being in a good relationship takes honesty, trust and OPEN communication, the ability to listen, talk openly and honestly and compromise but still be able to state your feelings openly and honestly.
Its just in general that I have a problem communicating how I feel. I want to be with him but I dont know how and what to do.
If you went on a weekend trip together, you're together. Unless he's in the habit of inviting casual dates on weekend trips just for the sex. Which most guys don't do.
Remember how much trouble you had because you were so insistent to put a label on relationships??
You have got to chill.
Last edited by BirdieBelle; 12-15-2013 at 07:22 PM..
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