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My girlfriend and I have been together for 8 years. It has mostly worked out great so far, she accepted my rules, meaning no marriage, no living together, no kids.
I've noticed she had been acting strangely around me for the past few days. She finally said we needed to have a very serious conversation. She then told me she was pregnant. I had a rage attack and told her it was her job to get rid of it, that she probbaly did it on purpose thinking she would trap me and she starting crying her eyes out. She said it had been an accident but that we could make it work with a child.
I asked her if I looked like I was interesting in changing diapers and asked her to leave.
I tried to ring her up again but she didn't answer. I actually broke a few things around the house when she told me the news and that probably scared her away.
What's the best way to convince her that an abortion is the best way to keep our good life?
Hmm. I would say that ship has sailed. I believe you have been clear in your position and saying or doing more is going to end worse than even your initial reaction.
If I were you I would just tell her I am not interested in parenting and I am not interested in parenting. However, at the end the decision is hers - either way you have already lost this relationship in the short or long term, but it's over (or she will just stay to make you pay and pay and pay for the way you reacted and treated her).
I don't believe in morals, but then it's immoral IMO to force her. I learn more pro-choice, but then it's her decision to make.
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