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Old 12-30-2013, 02:26 PM
 
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key word, FRIEND.
It never use to happen but now that it does, I shrug it off because we have silly humor but it's happening more and more. Is he just picking at me or what? He talks to me like I'm his girlfriend or hookup friend, but I do not want him that way.

Like I said, 10% of his comments turn sexual. "What do you wear to bed, you would look hot in those heels or that outfit, kiss me on the cheek it's ok, let me lick syrup off your feet", and so on...
or
If I have lint on my butt he spends extra time hitting it trying to get it off, when I wear heels he likes to put my feet in his lap, when we play pool he lingers at holding on to my hips behind me, if I am eating ice cream and it drips on me he says he wants to lick it off, etc.

I'm sure all guys think these things of their not hideous friends that are girls but why tell me? What is this in guy code?
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Old 12-30-2013, 02:28 PM
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Location: Phoenix,AZ
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key word, FRIEND.
It never use to happen but now that it does, I shrug it off because we have silly humor but it's happening more and more. Is he just picking at me or what? He talks to me like I'm his girlfriend or hookup friend, but I do not want him that way.

Like I said, 10% of his comments turn sexual. "What do you wear to bed, you would look hot in those heels or that outfit, kiss me on the cheek it's ok, let me lick syrup off your feet", and so on...
or
If I have lint on my butt he spends extra time hitting it trying to get it off, when I wear heels he likes to put my feet in his lap, when we play pool he lingers at holding on to my hips behind me, if I am eating ice cream and it drips on me he says he wants to lick it off, etc.

I'm sure all guys think these things of their not hideous friends that are girls but why tell me? What is this in guy code?

If I had to explain it, then you wouldn't understand.

Of course he's hitting on you.
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Old 12-30-2013, 02:31 PM
 
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Tell him to call you once his balls drop he will know what your talking about.
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Old 12-30-2013, 02:37 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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key word, FRIEND.
It never use to happen but now that it does, I shrug it off because we have silly humor but it's happening more and more. Is he just picking at me or what? He talks to me like I'm his girlfriend or hookup friend, but I do not want him that way.

Like I said, 10% of his comments turn sexual. "What do you wear to bed, you would look hot in those heels or that outfit, kiss me on the cheek it's ok, let me lick syrup off your feet", and so on...
or
If I have lint on my butt he spends extra time hitting it trying to get it off, when I wear heels he likes to put my feet in his lap, when we play pool he lingers at holding on to my hips behind me, if I am eating ice cream and it drips on me he says he wants to lick it off, etc.

I'm sure all guys think these things of their not hideous friends that are girls but why tell me? What is this in guy code?
Very, Very clear what he wants. You in turn must be very clear with him you are not interested. Or that you are. How have you responded to these comments? or have you just stayed silent and let it slide?
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Old 12-30-2013, 02:45 PM
 
Location: Terra
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Don't be stupid, he likes you.
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Old 12-30-2013, 02:46 PM
 
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Originally Posted by ursovain View Post
key word, FRIEND.
It never use to happen but now that it does, I shrug it off because we have silly humor but it's happening more and more. Is he just picking at me or what? He talks to me like I'm his girlfriend or hookup friend, but I do not want him that way.

Like I said, 10% of his comments turn sexual. "What do you wear to bed, you would look hot in those heels or that outfit, kiss me on the cheek it's ok, let me lick syrup off your feet", and so on...
or
If I have lint on my butt he spends extra time hitting it trying to get it off, when I wear heels he likes to put my feet in his lap, when we play pool he lingers at holding on to my hips behind me, if I am eating ice cream and it drips on me he says he wants to lick it off, etc.

I'm sure all guys think these things of their not hideous friends that are girls but why tell me? What is this in guy code?

There are *** hags for a reason.
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Old 12-30-2013, 02:53 PM
 
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He's wants to hookup with you.
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Old 12-30-2013, 03:00 PM
 
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He wants to be inside you, not beside you.
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Old 12-30-2013, 03:02 PM
 
Location: NY
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Does he know you see him as only a platonic friend?

Sounds like he is trying to hint at taking the relationship beyond "friend" and that he is not being all that subtle about it.
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Old 12-30-2013, 03:22 PM
 
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yes he knows i won't go there but he doesn't stop trying. I usually just laugh and stay silent or tell him to stop and behave.
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