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I agree with the other posters. If you just want to do it, get a prostitute. Craigslist is also full of hook-ups. Post your situation on there and see how it goes.
Craigslist ad has been up since 4:30 and I got two responses that I replied to with pics.
Don't get mixed up with hookers on craiglists. These people give horrible advice.
If you want a quick and easy lay, go do online dating. That is legal.
Don't get put on a sex offenders list because you got no game.
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Originally Posted by depurefymii23
Over the last few years I tried all of the standard advice I have already been getting, such as PUA, online dating, and joining social and hobbyist clubs. I go to bars pretty often because it is about the only thing to go to around here. Even with all of that I am still in this limbo.
Craigslist ad has been up since 4:30 and I got two responses that I replied to with pics.
Congrats! To everyone who keeps saying not to encourage you to use prostitutes - there are women on CL who may want to assist in deflowering a virgin just for the sake of it, without charging! You never know unless you put yourself out there!
I'm a 22 year old virgin from Pittsburgh region of the US, and I have asperger's syndrome. I recently had a birthday and now I am down on myself again because I made it through another year of my life with not even a kiss and it is so upsetting. I feel like this is holding my whole life back. The whole thing interrupts my focus. Trying to ignore it just makes it come back a week later twice as strong.
Over the last few years I tried all of the standard advice I have already been getting, such as PUA, online dating, and joining social and hobbyist clubs. I go to bars pretty often because it is about the only thing to go to around here. Even with all of that I am still in this limbo.
I recently fired another councilor because they were using me to get the paycheck, but wasn't helpful in empowering me to fix my life. I already graduated from a technical school a few years ago so I can't use that as an option to socialize. I am employed in the field I studied for, but I am not wealthy from it.
I tried asking the people around me what I was doing wrong and they won't give me straight honest answers. They either say there is noting wrong or avoid answering the question at all.
I don't care if you wish you was still a virgin, and I don't care if the world ends or not, I don't care if sex is everything or not, I don't want to wait for the right one, I just want to get the monkey off of my back get on with the rest of my life.
The only thing holding your whole life back is you and your attitude. So many people have disabilities that are much worse than yours and they still manage to date, marry, have children, work, have grandchildren and live their lives the way they want.
Do you think their attitude may have played a part in how they live their lives?
I just want to add that you are behaving irrationally. You are sadly mistaken if you believe being a virgin is holding up the rest of your life.
You say that your therapist wasn't empowering you to fix your life. I doubt that's true. If YOU know so much, why don't YOU empower yourself?
In any case, having sex won't change your life. Not to sound too harsh, but reading your thread and seeing how you think, I can see how you are not having much luck with women.
If you tried pickup artistry, no wonder you've failed. The vast majority of those guys either 1) are "skillful" PUAs and get easy girls with low self-esteem or 2) are unskillful and just look ridiculous.
Since you're just looking to lose your virginity any way possible and as soon as possible, I cosign the Craigslist recommendations.
If Craigslist doesn't work, go for an escort. There are escort review sites online, so that should help you weed out the scams and undercover cops.
Who cares if you are a 22 year old virgin? It's not a race and it is not as if anybody you know is going to randomly ask you if you are a virgin. If someone did ask, you can either be honest or just lie and say you aren't. It is no one's business anyway.
Why don't you just wait for the right woman to have sex with? Be proud that you are not one of those guys that sleeps with every woman they see. And better yet you are not one of those guys that got a girl pregnant and are now stuck with them for the next 18 years.
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