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Old 01-21-2014, 06:32 PM
 
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Brahmabull reincarnation?
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Old 01-21-2014, 06:35 PM
 
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I've met lots of guys through friends but sadly, only one led to a relationship. The rest were a few dates, casual things. Oddly, online is where I've met guys who more so wanted a relationship which I never expected to find.

I would only date a guy at work if he was in another dept. too much drama otherwise!

Met guys at school and ya...one was a doosh ex marine, the other could have been really cool and was very attractive but he got super creepy and I was 18 at the time while he was 30.

Yea you've had quite a bit more success than I have obviously


I'm guessing none of these guys really turned into what you were looking for because you didn't care for any of them all that much


What are the traits you're looking for?
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Old 01-21-2014, 06:52 PM
 
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Most women want a bodybuilding car salesman. Too bad you're not one of those, you'd be knee-deep in it.
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Old 01-21-2014, 06:52 PM
 
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Yea you've had quite a bit more success than I have obviously


I'm guessing none of these guys really turned into what you were looking for because you didn't care for any of them all that much


What are the traits you're looking for?
Sure, success in meeting men, but not in relationships. I want marriage and kids..not dates.

I tend to be attracted to clean cut, light skinned, hygienic, masculine men who are smart, blue collar, utilitarian types.

I wouldnt' rule out a white collar guy if he had manly hobbies though! lol.

Of course, I want what other women typically look for too.

the rest just depends on chemistry.

Those guys I didn't like, we didn't have that great of chemistry anyways.
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Old 01-21-2014, 06:53 PM
 
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Most women want a bodybuilding car salesman. Too bad you're not one of those, you'd be knee-deep in it.

eww gross. doosh central!
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Old 01-21-2014, 07:24 PM
 
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Honestly, just focus on making lots of money and getting a sugar baby.
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Old 01-21-2014, 07:54 PM
 
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man, if some of you guys would just grow some balls and talk to women then I wouldn't have to go online to meet men on/off the last year and a half or so...geeze!

Thankfully I have many interests so going to explore that soon. hopefully it expands my social circle and goes from there.
Wow how ridiculously self-centered.
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Old 01-21-2014, 08:02 PM
 
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Likely guys put so much more effort because generally guys have a higher sex drive and aren't content with solely masturbating while gals despite their sex drive likely would get more sexual gratification from masturbation than the male body.

Gals seem to see meeting somebody in the terms of relationships so it's more about quality which is about discerning and choosing while guys seem to see meeting somebody in the terms of sex so it's more about quantity and add in the higher sex drive and it's about getting some as much as possible.

I doubt there are lot of single women who are happy and totally single by choice as it seems most gals seek male companionship, intimacy, communication, and relationship.

I highly doubt most guys who are single are trying to date seems more likely that most guys who are single and have no to little sexual options are trying to date seeing it as a steady sex supply. I find most guys desire to be single as long as it means sex is involved.
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Old 01-21-2014, 08:38 PM
 
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I've pondered where the successful, simply beautiful, sensible, old school valued with a splash of modernism hibernate....almost forgot - intelligible logic.

I'm not seeking too much, right?

Although one forward critical thinking, assertive, open-minded, healthy, quirky woman with midwestern charm could make me the happiest man on planet earth.

Simple-
predatory prowl done and over easy.
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Old 01-21-2014, 08:45 PM
 
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I pondered where the successful, simply beautiful, sensible, old school valued with a splash of modernism hibernate....almost forgot - intelligible logic.

I'm not seeking too much, right?

Although one forward critical thinking, assertive, open-minded, healthy, quirky woman with midwestern charm could make me the happiest man on planet earth.

Simple-
game over.
Some of the qualities you want don't go together. "old-school values" + open-minded, assertive" don't really go together. Nor do "midwestern charm" and "assertive", usually. "Quirky" and "sensible" don't really go together.
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