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Old 01-24-2014, 04:08 PM
 
Location: Pa
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http://www.albionpleiad.com/2013/02/...holding-hands/

Do agree with this article that it's very important to hold hands when you are in a relationship?
Do you yourself hold hands with a romantic interest?

Any stories of doing this?
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Old 01-24-2014, 04:11 PM
 
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Hand holding is a must for me. If he's not open to that I don't want to know what else he might be uncomfortable with.

(Didn't read the article.)
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Old 01-24-2014, 04:13 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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I've been told that it's not just about holding hands, it's HOW you hold hands that counts. The most effective in terms of emotional or energetic exchange is interlocking the fingers. I guess that maximizes the number of receptors involved.
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Old 01-24-2014, 04:15 PM
 
Location: If I tell you, will you visit?
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When I was a kid, a whole group of us went to a mall. Every one was a paired off except for this one girl and I. I went up to her and said, "It's kinda goofy that every one here is boyfriend/girlfriend. Do you just want to hold hands while we walk?" In hind site it seems so lame, but it worked. Later we exchanged hickies and I was put on restriction for two weeks. Oh well. You only live once HAHAHA
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Old 01-24-2014, 04:16 PM
 
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We never hold hands. He's usually 10ft in front of me and my arms just aren't that long...lol
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Old 01-24-2014, 04:18 PM
 
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We never hold hands. He's usually 10ft in front of me and my arms just aren't that long...lol
???? Is he fighting off ninja's that are blocking your path?
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Old 01-24-2014, 04:24 PM
 
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???? Is he fighting off ninja's that are blocking your path?
LOL...no. What is funny is that he looks like he's walking slow because he has a long stride. For every step he takes I take 3. I have to run or power walk to keep up with him, so I just gave up.

Usually we have a kid or two with us when we are out. The older kids walk ahead with him and me and the youngers will walk behind.
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Old 01-24-2014, 04:27 PM
 
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I tend to date guys who are a bit testosterone-heavy. They tend to be either very reserved or rambunctiously gregarious - neither quality being one that you would associate with handholding. So when a guy like that reaches out and grabs my hand, it is a moment of significant intimacy for them - sometimes more than a kiss. Yet it's also such a childlike and sweet gesture. Kills me every time.
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Old 01-24-2014, 04:29 PM
 
Location: SCW, AZ
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We never hold hands. He's usually 10ft in front of me and my arms just aren't that long...lol
He sounds like true Kazanova!



I always hold hands, both of them.

Sometimes I have to use handcuffs and even duct tape!




Oh wait, you meant hold hands on a date?
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Old 01-24-2014, 04:38 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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The science in holding hands is friction between solids, the force/resistance of one body part against another which creates adhesion, thus getting clammy/sweaty hands; I don't see the point
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