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View Poll Results: Who pays for the date?
Whoever asked. 34 45.33%
The man always pays. 25 33.33%
The woman always pays. 2 2.67%
We split it. 12 16.00%
I don't go on dates that cost money, so no one. 2 2.67%
Voters: 75. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 01-31-2014, 09:13 PM
 
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Why is this even a question?? the man pays, duh. Its not a money thing. its a chivalry thing. my parents would disown me if I ever dated a man that wasn't chivalrous. Especially my very old fashioned father.
I thought chivalry was dead.

Isn't that what you ladies wanted?
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Old 01-31-2014, 09:17 PM
 
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In my opinion whoever asks as they are considered the 'host'.
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Old 01-31-2014, 09:18 PM
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I thought chivalry was dead.

Isn't that what you ladies wanted?
I haven't seen a knight around for awhile, so I'm pretty sure the term is outdated.
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Old 01-31-2014, 09:18 PM
 
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I thought chivalry was dead.

Isn't that what you ladies wanted?
It's what some gals want. It's not what some gals want. Do tell why do you seem to be under the impression that gals in general want this?
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Old 01-31-2014, 09:34 PM
 
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I haven't seen a knight around for awhile, so I'm pretty sure the term is outdated.
Are you kidding me? I wear a full suit of armor while I am on the forums. I hold the visor up with a bungee cord
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Old 01-31-2014, 09:36 PM
 
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Are you kidding me? I wear a full suit of armor while I am on the forums. I hold the visor up with a bungee cord
You do too?
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Old 01-31-2014, 09:38 PM
 
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Are you kidding me? I wear a full suit of armor while I am on the forums. I hold the visor up with a bungee cord
LOL Once I figured out to stop initiating new threads I'm doing fine here! Armor is no longer necessary for me!
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Old 01-31-2014, 09:44 PM
 
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I believe the man should always pay for the date but the girl should ALWAYS offer to pay and MEAN IT. I was brought up in a traditional household and this is what was taught and it is the way I conduct my dating life.
The first half of the opening sentence makes the second half completely meaningless.
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Old 01-31-2014, 09:50 PM
 
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This mofo subject needs to get sticky'ed to the top with a bold no more threads like this.

In this day and age, who ever asked should do the paying.... probably the safest "PC" way to approach the subject.

I have my own thoughts, but I've expressed them about a billion times already....
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Old 01-31-2014, 09:51 PM
 
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Are we supposed to respond with who DOES pay, or who SHOULD pay?
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