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I guess so, but if that was all that she wanted and was upfront about it, I probably still would have given myself to her. I'm starting to think that she gets a thrill out of it. Or maybe she's a commitmentaphobe (probably wishful thinking on my part). If it were that easy, at least I'd know to be patient. But her favorite movie is pretty d@mning testimony. I just hate how she's still getting to me.
I don't get the impression that you were being used.
If all she wanted was sex with you she would come back for more. Sounds more like a case of her being into you but changed her minds afterwards.
My favorite movie is Pulp Fiction, what does that say about me? That you are reaching?
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I guess so, but if that was all that she wanted and was upfront about it, I probably still would have given myself to her. I'm starting to think that she gets a thrill out of it. Or maybe she's a commitmentaphobe (probably wishful thinking on my part). If it were that easy, at least I'd know to be patient. But her favorite movie is pretty d@mning testimony. I just hate how she's still getting to me.
She just might have no liked having sex with you. It happens a lot. I recently had a couple of dates with a woman and when we had sex it was decent, but it was clear that we weren't on the same page. We kid about it after. Obviously it didn't happen like that with you, but still, she just might not have been into the way you brought it. No biggie. Move on.
If her favorite movie based on the book Les Liaisons Dangereuses was Cruel Intentions, I would think her taste would be questionable from the start.
If you were hurt, I'm sorry.
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I guess so, but if that was all that she wanted and was upfront about it, I probably still would have given myself to her. I'm starting to think that she gets a thrill out of it. Or maybe she's a commitmentaphobe (probably wishful thinking on my part). If it were that easy, at least I'd know to be patient. But her favorite movie is pretty d@mning testimony. I just hate how she's still getting to me.
I think she just wanted to get laid with no strings attached. And she knew that you were the kind of guy who would like the stuff she said.
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My favorite movie is Fargo, but that doesn't mean people should expect me to shove my buddy into a wood chipper, or ransom my spouse in a staged kidnapping gone awry. Don't read too much in.
Haha. One of my favorite movies is No Country for Old Men (also a Coen film). I can guarantee that I am not getting ready to 1) run off with a bunch of money or 2) stalk someone who took money from me and have a gunfight in the middle of a street. Or, a third option, perform a monologue about a crazy dream I had and talk about how people in the world are bad.
If you were in love, which I'm not getting a feel of that from your post at all, then I'd feel sorry for you. Otherwise, it just seems like you both had a good time and that was all that was wanted from both, assuming the story is even real.
You were lead on? You had 1 night where you had sex 3 times. That doesn't make a freakin' relationship.
You were hooked. You called and texted a few times each and are still hanging on 3 weeks later! She's probably nailed 4 other guys and completely forgotten about you!
Sheesh, move on!
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