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She led me to believe that I wasn't just another guy. That she saw something more in me. Perhaps led a few girls on over the years for my benefit, but never without an explanation after the fact.
Ha! The "user" now knows how it feels to be "used." Karma is a [Mod snip], along with her older sister, Fate. Never forget it.... I would offer sympathy but sometimes you need to know how the things you've done to others in the past feels. That's what makes us better, empathetic people.
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She was excited till she slept with you. Then she was not excited anymore. Go figure...
What I find strange about this is that she went to such great lengths to get you to have sex. It sounds almost like a case of role reversal on her part.
A woman who talks a man into sex...when all she really has to do is take her sweater off? This is most unusual and something doesn't add up with her behavior.
There is always this misconception that men can always separate emotion from sex. The reality is men are very vulnerable to physical beauty and fall head over heels for women who possess such beauty. They get just as emotionally hurt when they are just used for sex. Of course men can also easily engage in sex with women they aren't emotionally invested in but rarely would they describe them in such glowing terms afterwards (a sure sign of emotional investment).
She led me to believe that I wasn't just another guy.
Sounds like she led you to believe something that wasn't there.
Perhaps, she wasn't even there and you are leading us to believe she was there to begin with?
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That she saw something more in me.
I think she wanted to see something morein her but didn't. I am sure, the guy she is with now, is making it happen.
She led me to believe that I wasn't just another guy. That she saw something more in me. That my gaze made her feel excited, nervous, and at ease all at once. That she'd never been more attracted to anyone more tangible in her entire life. The attraction was mutual (or at least I assumed at the time). She was a green eyed beauty with fair skin and auburn hair. Grew up in Dallas, but hated the pretentiousness of that town (a real life everything is bigger and better in texas type attitude exists there). That's all the backstory I care to discuss at the moment. It's still kinda fresh and I need some time because it isn't often I fall so hard for someone I just met.
We ended up having sex. Three times that night. It's been close to three weeks now and she hasn't returned my two calls or text. It sucks. I really liked her, but I'm sure she has her reasons. Even I never ghosted someone like this. Perhaps led a few girls on over the years for my benefit, but never without an explanation after the fact. I should have known she was trouble when she confessed that her favorite movie was Cruel Intentions. Still don't believe in karma, but perhaps someone younger and wiser would. I'm too set in my ways.
dude, it happens. if you guys had true chemistry, she will be back, especially if the sex was good.. but after you let her go. you gotta it give it a rest, cuz apparently she didn't think the timing was good. who knows, maybe she is still trying to untangle herself from her ex or giving it one last chance. in the meantime the best thing you can do is date other women. it's funny, every time i am jelling with a new squeeze my ex seems to call or text me, it's female intuition. so know that as long as she thinks you are available, she has you on hold. move on and when she comes back, remind her why she was crazy to let you go, even temporarily. and i'm not talking about give her a piece of your mind, i'm talking about f*cking her brains out like she may disappear again. so give it your best shot. pun intended. good luck!
If you sleep with someone right away don't expect them to stick around, take time to get to know a person before you have sex with them, Less chance of them using you for sex and leaving if there's feelings involved.
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If you feel that she use you then y you waste your time behind her?? Just move on and try to find someone else who love you not use you...
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