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Old 02-11-2014, 03:36 PM
 
Location: Texas
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I still don't understand why he's upset...you were jealous of his previous relationship and you called her to meet up? Was that a spiteful gesture on your part and that's why he's mad? Or is it just weird and that's why he's mad? I'm sorry, but I just don't quite get it.

Also, that's good that you won't be drinking...no sense in making things worse.

Sorry you're having such a hard time...
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Old 02-11-2014, 03:38 PM
 
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I am not fully understanding why he is upset with you...

I'm not sure what you expect. You can't "win people back" they either want to be in a situation or they do not. In this case it appears he just got fed up with the way your past history together was panning out and doesn't want the drama in his life anymore?

All you can do is communicate to one another what you both want moving forward and what you are willing to do for it. Don't get caught up in attempting to read "signs" from people...ask them what they mean and accept it.
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Old 02-11-2014, 03:39 PM
 
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I think he was just mad because he said I didn't trust him. The thing is, he is the most trustworthy guy I know. He really is a wonderful guy.
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Old 02-11-2014, 03:41 PM
 
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Also, it's not an ex, just one of his friends . Every couple months he goes to dinner or something with her and her daughter bc her daughter loves him
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Old 02-11-2014, 03:52 PM
 
Location: Texas
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So WHY is he mad then?

Not trusting him HOW?
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Old 02-11-2014, 04:01 PM
 
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I questioned if there was anything going on bc I thought it seemed like she was trying to find her daughter a dad.
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Old 02-11-2014, 04:17 PM
 
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I just wish I could prove to him that I won't make the same mistakes again .
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Old 02-11-2014, 05:39 PM
 
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Also, his birthday was This weekend, if I meet with him
Tomorrow should I take his card and present or no..... Its nothing big, but I had it before we fought .
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Old 02-11-2014, 05:45 PM
 
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I just wish I could prove to him that I won't make the same mistakes again .
You had your chance. The thing you do is take it as a lesson learned and move on. Your make made his decision and is done with you.
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Old 02-11-2014, 05:45 PM
 
Location: DFW
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Seduce him with hot sex.
That always gets me back.

If that doesn't work at least you had a nice last night to remember.
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