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She's went back home to her home state to do the driving test, so she's off work for a week hence the text.
I've only asked her out once and she agreed to it at first. Then said a couple days later to me in person that she couldn't as we worked together but she was leaving in a month and would/consider it when she has left in a months time.
I honestly want her to pass as this will allow her to go for the career in which she wants to do, nothing more than that.
Be smart and leave the women at work ALONE! Messing with the women at work is not a smart thing to do. You're there to work, not be a player. Unless of course you don't plan on working there long? Wise up kid...
I think text her. Be friendly and not pushy. Follow her lead -- don't text more often than she does. If she stays in touch, then don't mention possibly dating until after she has started the new job.
I can't tell from what you wrote whether she actually wants to date you later or is just trying to let you down easy, so that's why I say follow her lead. Maybe it will all work out!
I know this sounds cheesy but the Universe will sort it out for you. If you are 'meant' to be together, then she will contact you or you will see each other when she has passed her driving test. If you push for something not in 'the plan' then it wont work out and may lead to problems.
Just make sure she knows that you would like to take her out when she has left the company and is free of either of you being sacked for dating. Then leave it alone and see what happens. If you promise her a meal if she passes or fails, then later she can ring you up and ask if you are still on for the meal.
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In love what is professional and what is unprofessional. Dear you choose the wrong lady. she is compare the love with other things. So it will go to long. And no need to talk with her. at work time you have to talk with her otherwise no..
I can't tell from what you wrote whether she actually wants to date you later or is just trying to let you down easy, so that's why I say follow her lead. Maybe it will all work out!
Me neither, though she did seem keen until she told a co-worker and then that was the end of that.
She's went back home to her home state to do the driving test, so she's off work for a week hence the text.
Surely your phone has the capability to let you TALK, right?
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