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Old 02-22-2014, 05:55 PM
 
Location: northwest Illinois
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Originally Posted by Kin Atoms View Post
If I am going to be intimate with a woman, love is already in the equation. There is more about this woman than a warm, moist holster and two pillows. If I haven't already noticed something by feeling her body through her blouse or seeing her silhouette through her slacks, it can only get better. The erotic experience of being totally nude with your partner (no secrets, pure vulnerability) is a gift that keeps giving. Add a smile and that's a full night for me - forget the popcorn and soda, I'm going from watching to enjoying, and there's a lot of fun to be had.

I've never had more than enough and I've never stopped from ecstasy. Seeing something unexpected? If this was a she-male, I'd be on the fast train to Siberia with the 'extra,' but with a woman? There is no 'more' that wouldn't be relished. That criticism is not a part of any picture. I don't get this. I guess this is the difference of being committed to a person vs. finding a parking spot for a while.
Well said.
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Old 02-22-2014, 06:24 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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I know this question gets asked a lot, but I was talking to a couple of friends of mine about this and decided to bring it here.....

So guys when you're sleeping with a woman, and you see her naked in perhaps not a very flattering light...do you notice her flaws and imperfections? Do you care?
No
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Old 02-22-2014, 06:35 PM
 
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If I'm sleeping with a woman, I'm already very much into her (I don't do one night stands) so if I see her naked in a not very flattering light, that doesn't bother me one bit.
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Old 02-22-2014, 10:14 PM
 
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Specific examples for me in a woman

No problem :

*Stretch marks
*cellulite
*scars
*medium or less body fat levels


Problem :

*excessive body hair
*excessive pubic hair
*high body fat levels or obese
*poor hygiene
I agree. OP needs to be more clear about what types of stuff. I can think of some other stuff, but it would probably be inappropriate.
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Old 02-22-2014, 10:22 PM
 
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A gentleman (like myself ) would never make a negative comment towards a woman's naked body in bed; no matter how imperfect.

I will however, question bullet and stab wounds
Comment like, "I've had better."
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Old 02-22-2014, 10:23 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Problem :

*excessive body hair
*excessive pubic hair
*high body fat levels or obese
*poor hygiene
No offense man, but if you're even letting a girl like this get naked I think it's your own fault and you have some issues of yourself =p
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Old 02-22-2014, 10:25 PM
 
Location: Virginia Beach, VA
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No offense man, but if you're even letting a girl like this get naked I think it's your own fault and you have some issues of yourself =p
Haha, yeah, that's a good point. Especially the excess body fat/obese one. It's not like he could only notice that when the clothes came off! Unless it was during the hung over "walk of shame" the following morning when the booze wore off!
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Old 02-22-2014, 10:27 PM
 
Location: The point of no return, er, NorCal
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Spanx can do wonders for some women. I've seen men complain about being deceived by women wearing Spanx. Saying they were expecting a particular physique and what they got or saw when everything came off left much to be desired.
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Old 02-22-2014, 10:28 PM
 
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Haha, yeah, that's a good point. Especially the excess body fat/obese one. It's not like he could only notice that when the clothes came off! Unless it was during the hung over "walk of shame" the following morning when the booze wore off!
Went to bed at 2 with a 10, woke up at 10 with a 2.
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Old 02-22-2014, 10:29 PM
 
Location: The point of no return, er, NorCal
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Went to bed at 2 with a 10, woke up at 10 with a 2.
Makeup came off?
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