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Any attractive woman that is having a hard time getting guys to approach needs to take a look inside to see what type of signals she is giving out. I don't know too many men that are going to approach a woman that has a pissed off....combative....unfriendly look on her face.
If you aren't getting guys to approach you then it is your fault.
"Getting guys to approach" - that means I would have to initiate. I generally don't find a man attractive if I have to initiate. But when I've tried just to try, I get the response I described in my first post.
I'm very shy and have been mistaken for a snob at times, but some of that is prejudice against stylish, thin women who aren't outgoing. So I make effort to smile and make female friends, but men just look freaked out.
"Getting guys to approach" - that means I would have to initiate. I generally don't find a man attractive if I have to initiate. But when I've tried just to try, I get the response I described in my first post.
I'm very shy and have been mistaken for a snob at times, but some of that is prejudice against stylish, thin women who aren't outgoing. So I make effort to smile and make female friends, but men just look freaked out.
Welcome to real life. Sometimes you have to be willing to reach a little to get what you truly want. The guys you have been conversing with up to this point are idiots. That is why they reacted the way they did. If a guy is interested in you then he will definitely reciprocate your advance. If he is not interested he will either give you a funny look or politely say no thanks and end conversation.
Don't let the few dummies you have been in contact with ruin it for the rest of us guys.
"Getting guys to approach" - that means I would have to initiate. I generally don't find a man attractive if I have to initiate. But when I've tried just to try, I get the response I described in my first post.
I'm very shy and have been mistaken for a snob at times, but some of that is prejudice against stylish, thin women who aren't outgoing. So I make effort to smile and make female friends, but men just look freaked out.
Perhaps you might meet some nice men, if you join a fishing, hiking, biking, bird watching, or photography club.
Most men would gladly accept an invitation to a date even if they didn't think the woman was good-looking. Contrast that to most women, who would find the vast majority of men physically unattractive and/or not rich enough and thus not worth a single date. We have a lot of men giving up on dating due to rejection. I know there probably exists a woman who I find attractive and who wouldn't reject me, but since I'm 0 for 3, I constantly doubt myself and am afraid of striking out more because it'll further compound my lack of confidence.
Oh probably because many women aren't interested in a man who has given up on dating due to rejection. We prefer men with backbones who can handle difficult issues when they enter ones life without having to crawl into a fetal position.
Most men would gladly accept an invitation to a date even if they didn't think the woman was good-looking. Contrast that to most women, who would find the vast majority of men physically unattractive and/or not rich enough and thus not worth a single date. We have a lot of men giving up on dating due to rejection. I know there probably exists a woman who I find attractive and who wouldn't reject me, but since I'm 0 for 3, I constantly doubt myself and am afraid of striking out more because it'll further compound my lack of confidence.
It happened to me once. But I told her we couldn't see each other anymore because she is a Hooters/party girl. That doesn't go good for my lifestyle.
Oh probably because many women aren't interested in a man who has given up on dating due to rejection. We prefer men with backbones who can handle difficult issues when they enter ones life without having to crawl into a fetal position.
A man who is emotionally weak is not attractive to most women. Sometimes the truth hurts. But the truth is better than expecting a woman to step into a man's role.
A man who is emotionally weak is not attractive to most women. Sometimes the truth hurts. But the truth is better than expecting a woman to step into a man's role.
A woman approached me. But I am not an emotionally weak man. I could care less what women think about me. I'm not here to be liked.
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