Guys would you date a sexually frigid woman? (girlfriends, married, family)
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I didn't read any of the responses yet but when I read, "sexually frigid," woman I think of, "don't touch me!" While I'm not an overly sexual man I couldn't handle that kind of rejection consistently in a relationship.
I am emotionally affectionate, but I freeze up and become very tense during those sexual moments. I am very fortunate that my boyfriend is very loving and supportive. He knows that I love him and it is not intentional.
Could it be that you are not compatible with your partner? Are you happy with him and love him? I wonder if you are truly frigid or just super self-conscious. Being self-conscious stops a lot of people, women in particular, from enjoying their sexuality.
I love my bf but I am very self conscious and shy.
Well, I guess you can post about it so you are not so frigid. How about him going down on you? Do you masturbate? Could it be possible you are a lesbian?
I'm very communicative and emotionally very loving. My issue is expressing my sexuality and not feeling self conscious about it. I can speak about it but it doesn't help me get over my frigidity in the bedroom.
I do not masturbate and I am definitely not a lesbian. I am not in any way sexually attracted to another woman, I am sexually attracted to the opposite sex.
I am wondering if eventually my bf will get tired of my situation and leave. We have been dating for two years and he still hasn't asked to marry me or even hinted that he's interested in getting married to me.
There are no treatments for vaginismus that I'm aware of besides therapy.
Have you tried therapy to treat this? If not he may not stick around long enough waiting for you to figure things out. What happens if he wants kids? I think you need to explore treatment for vaginismus so you are making attempts to improve your situation instead of just expecting your boyfriend to live with it.
Have you tried therapy to test this? If not he may not stuck around long enough.
We did go for counseling but I didn't like discussing all of those intimate details with a complete stranger. Online it's ok for me because of the anonymous factor, but in person it's a different ball game when a complete stranger is asking so many personal intimate questions. We decided to take a break from the counseling because it was stressing me out. I would like for us to resume the sessions, but I have to be sure that it is with the right therapist.
I can't have sexual intercourse with my bf and I don't like to be touched in a sexual way.
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