300+ pound man says I'm too fat (girls, jealous, friend, couple)
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The last time he saw me, I was still skinny. I told him I gained a lot of weight that's why I am not comfortable dating. That's when he said he does not care if I am fat or even obese so it made me feel comfortable to meet him. But when we finally met I knew he completely lost interest in me.
It happened in 2011 and really damaged my self confidence. Instead of just accepting his decision, I did all I can to make him like me again. My friends said I was being irrational. I guess, I have a hard time accepting rejection. I hung on to him until 2013. I can't get the insecurity off even if I lost weight already (thought not skinny like before)
That's got to be frustrating. I'm no life coach, but hopefully you can tap into whatever it was that helped you lose weight and use that same engine to restore your sense of self confidence. Hold you head up and never let your sense of self worth be defined by what others think of you!
Are you insinuating, men need sufficient piping in order to plumb an overweight woman?
To reach ... when all of his layers of fat are going to interfere he can't reach if he has to deal with layers of fat on the other person, especially if he got the short end of the stick.
I'm sure his defense for his boorish, rude behavior towards you would be, "It's just my preference."
I agree. Preferences
Be glad OP that it didn't progress, someone who has a "list" of criteria to meet are people who are typically difficult to please because they place so much expectation on you to please them.
To reach ... when all of his layers of fat are going to interfere he can't reach if he has to deal with layers of fat on the other person, especially if he got the short end of the stick.
He didn't like you, you weren't a Big Mac...that's his preference.
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