Ladies! Got a quick question for you! (dating, women, sleeping)
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When you ladies are looking for a relationship what makes you feel secure that the guy is not in it for something else like just sex? Let's say you have an opinion that the guy is a player or he sleeps around a bit. BUT he is willing to actually take you out on a real date something cool and different that obviously took some thought. He is not treating you just like another piece of ass but he obviously likes you legitimately.
Would you totally evade the situation? What could make you feel more comfortable about it? What can the guy do in this case?
I also would not date a guy I knew going in was a player. To many good guys out there who aren't that way, I have no patience for that kind of thing. A guy who treats women in general like commodities, but "not me, because I'm special?" Nah. No thanks.
I also would not date a guy I knew going in was a player. To many good guys out there who aren't that way, I have no patience for that kind of thing. A guy who treats women in general like commodities, but "not me, because I'm special?" Nah. No thanks.
Alright, but isn't it much more meaningful when someone with experience tells you that you are special instead of the guy who has dated only one or two girls his entire life and hasn't experienced dating more women. How can he say you are special when he has only a few women to compare you to?
I don't know why the blame is always put on the guy in this situation. What about the girl that slept with the guy?
Alright, but isn't it much more meaningful when someone with experience tells you that you are special instead of the guy who has dated only one or two girls his entire life and hasn't experienced dating more women. How can he say you are special when he has only a few women to compare you to?
I don't know why the blame is always put on the guy in this situation. What about the girl that slept with the guy?
Because I am not gonna be sleeping with those girls if ever. Well actually if I did sleep with this player guy I would have had slept indirectly with ALL the girls he slept with his entire life right?
Ewwww no thank you.
And the only special I would get from the 'relationship' is a special discount to valtrex prescription. LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL!
Because I am not gonna be sleeping with those girls if ever. Well actually if I did sleep with this player guy I would have had slept indirectly with ALL the girls he slept with his entire life right?
Ewwww no thank you.
And the only special I would get from the 'relationship' is a special discount to valtrex prescription. LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL!
LOL! Well for arguments sake lets assume he is STD free thanks to bleach.(hopefully ohiogirl doesn't read this post)
If it comes from someone who is a player, to me, it's virtually indistinguishable from any other manipulation, and feels like BS. Why waste the time? I'm not compatible with that.. You seem to imply that the options here are a "player," or a guy with limited relationship experience. Those aren't the only options. I don't expect to be (or have any desire to be) "the one who turned a player around." Someone who operates that way in the first place has totally different values than I do. I'm just not interested.
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