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Even so, could she have been so bad that he felt that ghosting on her is the best way to end things? After three months you at least deserve a dumping by phone.
I agree. There is a lot more to sex than sex. Depending on the man, a woman can be too eager, not eager enough; her borders can be too wide, not wide enough; her emotional energy can be too strong, not strong enough. Perhaps, she was holding something back and he could sense it, or she was holding back nothing and it sacred him. Or it could have been because she "attached" to him emotionally in a way he didn't want....etc..
Could be anything, but it's really a douche move not to at least send a text or something to let her know he doesn't want to see her anymore after three months!
I have experience. Sex just isn't that important to me. And you telling me that I'm bad with women is not some earth shattering news.
Like seriously though. Describe in words what would make a woman good and bad the first time. With a condom. What do you expect her to do?
Do you expect her vagina to be a certain tightness? A good blowjob? Positions?
Rhythm, compatability... it's hard to describe. I can only describe it as a 6th sense regarding sexual compatability.
Like my latest one this past weekend. Has a banging body... mostly nice ass with little waist. She made these hot little movements and sounds when we'd get it on and it turned me on. And she was really into it too and we'd take turns dominating each other.
Girls that just lay there and grunt are the worst. If they only want to stay in one position, they can GTFO.
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I've mentioned this before, but how can a woman suck in bed? Especially on the first time.
She is lying there while you are thrusting your penis into her.
You expect a wild, pornstar, crazy session the first time? Or some particular torque ratio on her vagina? And on top of that, I assume you're using a condom the first time, so it's gonna suck anyway.
I mean, guys must be super successful players to dump otherwise good women after the first time because they are not good at sex. After a couple of months, I can see it. It's still pretty sh@tty, but hey, whatever.
You can't be serious. I'm... I'm just flabbergasted.
Could be many reasons including he is a jerk. Did she mention how was the sex?
Maybe he was bad in bed and too embarassed to see her again.Maybe he is gay.
Maybe he ran out of money.
Maybe he really likes her but is too immature to man up.
Maybe he is a tool.
Girls that just lay there and grunt are the worst. If they only want to stay in one position, they can GTFO.
Interesting. That's what I like. To me, the difference lies in vagina tightness. Some women have tighter vaginas than others, and it makes a difference in sensation and orgasm.
Not that I would dump any woman over that, but there that is.
Quite honestly, I can say that is the ONLY thing a woman has never rejected me for, being bad at sex that is.
What if the sex wasn't bad... what if the sex was GREAT.... What could be other reasons for the abrupt turn off?
This is an easy one. At some point during their intimate encounter he got a dim notion that she might be interested in a long-term relationship now. His brain suddenly woke up to the fact that he was dealing with a human being who might expect more than an uncommitted series of dates that end in bed... so he bailed.
This is so very common I can't believe no one mentioned it.
You can't be serious. I'm... I'm just flabbergasted.
I really don't know how to respond to that.
Dump whomever you want. But don't have an arrogant attitude about it.
Sex isn't that important to me. I would strongly consider dating a woman if she couldn't have sex if she was everything else.
And sex can be taught. Dumping an otherwise good woman after the first sex session is like firing a worker after one day.
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