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Old 03-21-2014, 02:03 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Interesting. That's what I like. To me, the difference lies in vagina tightness. Some women have tighter vaginas than others, and it makes a difference in sensation and orgasm..
This statement really betrays your ignorance.

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Old 03-21-2014, 02:18 PM
 
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Why would a man wine and dine a woman for 3 months and then never contact her again after they have sex for the first time? I assume if he just wanted sex, he wouldn't have spent 3 months courting her so I don't think that it is he just wanted to get laid. This happened almost 2 weeks ago. They are both in their late 30's and single.
BTW - this didn't happen to me but to someone I know. I feel awful for her.

Whatever the reason..The GUY A LOSER!
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Old 03-21-2014, 02:21 PM
 
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This statement really betrays your ignorance.


Agree! The fact is, the guy has no balls, instead of being up front and ended it like an adult, he vanished... LOSER! I hope the gal smart enough to move on and thank her lucky stars he gone....
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Old 03-21-2014, 02:22 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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I've mentioned this before, but how can a woman suck in bed? Especially on the first time.

She is lying there while you are thrusting your penis into her.

You expect a wild, pornstar, crazy session the first time? Or some particular torque ratio on her vagina? And on top of that, I assume you're using a condom the first time, so it's gonna suck anyway.

I mean, guys must be super successful players to dump otherwise good women after the first time because they are not good at sex. After a couple of months, I can see it. It's still pretty sh@tty, but hey, whatever.
That sounds so depressing.
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Old 03-21-2014, 02:42 PM
 
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Hello - I am the OP. I think a lot of people are bad the first they have sex with someone new. Some people are shy with a new partner. Some men are so nervous they can't get it up. Should you just cut and run without giving them a second chance? Some people just need practice. I am baffled at how judgmental people can be after one encounter.
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Old 03-21-2014, 02:59 PM
 
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I don't think anyone else mentioned this but it's a possibility he was wooing a few women at the same time, trying to get as much sex as he can with various women.

Either way he's a dick for not being a human being and just disconnecting. Tell your friend to move on.
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Old 03-21-2014, 03:05 PM
 
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I feel sorrier for the women he's having sex with.
That's not what I meant. Sex can be really good, but to dump someone after the first time. I mean, really whatever, people can do what they want.

BTW, no woman has ever complained about that.
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Old 03-21-2014, 03:07 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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Well there are thousands of possible reasons, in 999 of them it was rude for him to do. Only about 2 are allowable for the disappearing act (death).
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Old 03-21-2014, 03:09 PM
 
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This is the most depressing description of sex I've ever read. I'm sorry, dude. I am really really sorry.
Again, not what I meant. Sex can be really good, but life is about so much more than sex.

Please don't imply that your life is awesome and my life sucks. That's so not very nice.

Even if somebody was incapable of having or enjoying sex, would you imply that their life sucked?
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Old 03-21-2014, 03:20 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Well there are thousands of possible reasons, in 999 of them it was rude for him to do. Only about 2 are allowable for the disappearing act (death).
I agree. I'd add kidnapping, coma, and abducted by aliens to the list of allowable reasons. But you'd think that they would allow him one phone call from the spaceship.
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