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Old 01-15-2015, 11:42 PM
 
Location: NC
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He broke up with me.
He wants to stay friends.
He contacted me to return a small impersonal item.
He contacted me to tell me he finally did the thing I've asked of him that he wouldn't do during our relationship.
I removed social media.
I blocked chat features.
I deleted his number.
He texts asking what he did wrong.
I don't respond.
My heart breaks if he contacts me.
My heart breaks if he doesn't.
My heart breaks if I respond.
My heart breaks if I don't.
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Old 01-15-2015, 11:44 PM
 
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and?

If you blocked chat features and all of the above how in the world was he able to text you?
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Old 01-16-2015, 12:32 AM
 
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Don't respond.
Don't take texts or calls.
Your heart will soon be free.
I gotta take a pee.
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Old 01-16-2015, 05:52 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Don't respond.
Don't take texts or calls.
Your heart will soon be free.
I gotta take a pee.
/endthread
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Old 01-16-2015, 06:02 AM
 
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You took the right steps. Continue to not respond. Follow through, continue to ignore him. It will get better.
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Old 01-16-2015, 06:17 AM
 
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I agree with SD4020, you are taking the right steps.

Your heart will heal.
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Old 01-16-2015, 07:35 AM
 
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So hard. If it helps, I think what you are going through is a pretty universal experience. Most of us know what that feels like. And we survived it...it just takes time. It sucks to feel the way you are feeling. But it's ok to feel like that...you just need to understand that this is not your forever. Everyday sucky, painful day that passes is one day closer to you feeling like yourself again.
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Old 01-16-2015, 09:03 AM
 
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people have got to learn to let go.
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Old 01-16-2015, 09:24 AM
 
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I compare love to an addiction....
Letting go of something or someone you're addicted to physically, mentally, emotionally & spiritually
is much, much easier said than done...
Continuously & consciously get him out of your mind/heart/soul.....

Relapse is a b*tch
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Old 01-16-2015, 09:45 AM
 
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I compare love to an addiction....
Letting go of something or someone you're addicted to physically, mentally, emotionally & spiritually
is much, much easier said than done...
Continuously & consciously get him out of your mind/heart/soul.....

Relapse is a b*tch

^^^^This^^^^^^^^^
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