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Even better. Was I supposed to disagree or something?
I agree this is even better..
However, if he has 3 other girls on the side, he probably wouldn't have started this thread nor care about waiting a few dates for a girl he really likes.
Be honest with her. Tell her you feel like you're wasting your time because she won't let you have sex with her. She deserves to know this so she can move on quick and find someone better.
Exactly she will move on. No guy deserves sex. Dating and sharing the bill, sure.Developing a mutual respect for each other is key.
Op she made out with you, she wants you but sex is a big thing to some women.
If you really can't wait you aren't ready for a relationship. You just want to hump and dump. Women can see this.
Oh, and by the way, when I say give it three more dates, that is assuming she takes the initiative and invites you out and pays for at least one, if not two of them. I don't think you should keep wining and dining her if there is no forward motion. Not that women owe men sex because men pay for meal, but she needs to signal her interest in you right about now, and the best way for her to do that is to take you out on a date. Better yet, in her shoes, date #4 would be on me, and date #6 would be at my place for a home-cooked meal. Then we'd see what's what--if we hadn't already.
Sheesh, what's the rush? Three times we saw you and already expected to just drop it like it's hot huh, before we're even in a relationship? Why not just enjoy getting to know her and spending time together; let things develop naturally. Then you won't need to be preoccupied about whether she's gonna bang you, because it'll eventually happen by itself as she and you feel more comfortable and ready for physical intimacy with each other.
Obviously your romance with her isn't at that level yet, otherwise you wouldn't feel anxiety about whether you'll still want her, and wouldn't be keeping count of dates without sex.
I agree. But be honest with her and let her know that he is writing her off because he had expectations that she would have put out by now and he doesn't deserve to take up her time.
I agree. But be honest with her and let her know that he is writing her off because he had expectations that she would have put out by now and he doesn't deserve to take up her time.
Well I agree, but he could at least admit what he was looking for.
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