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Were these signals from girls that I missed, or am I reading too much into them after the fact? These were all in the past few years at college, all different girls:
-Girl tells me after class she's "sick of going out all the time" and might want to stay in this weekend. Tells me to call her if I want to do something. I thought she was just being nice. Same girl kissed me on the cheek after class once. She had a boyfriend at the time, but NEVER mentioned him.
-Several drunk/tipsy girls at bars, asking me to come to a different bar with them. I declined.
-Meet a girl at a bar, I start talking about her wanting to come back to my place, she asks if my roommates are around. Wasn't sure how to reply lol
-Girl writes on my fb wall for my bday, saying we should go out for drinks (even though we've never hung out). We go. I wasn't sure if it was a date or not, so I didn't flirt w her. Just ate wings and talked
-A girl jokes around about how we should stop working on a class project and go makeout
-Meet a girl at a party, we talk for hours, holding each other in arms as we stand. Don't make a move.
-Meet a girl at a party, she gives me a tour of her apartment next door, we go into her room and she sits on her bed. I stay standing.
I'm sure there are many more.
Am I reading too much into these?
Last edited by Canada Boy; 04-25-2014 at 01:16 PM..
If you don't make a move after getting signals like that, you're a lost cause.
It's just hard for me to believe that women (especially women as good looking as these) would find me attractive, so I just pass it off as them being nice.
It's just hard for me to believe that women (especially women as good looking as these) would find me attractive, so I just pass it off as them being nice.
Ok, so forget about them and focus on less attractive women if that's what you believe.
It's just hard for me to believe that women (especially women as good looking as these) would find me attractive, so I just pass it off as them being nice.
Your best bet is to just say f*ck it and go for it regardless.
Just wondering, have you kept in contact with even one of the girls you listed above? I mean, what did you gain by not making a move?
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It's just hard for me to believe that women (especially women as good looking as these) would find me attractive, so I just pass it off as them being nice.
You're probably right. Leave them to the men that have a spine and some self esteem.
-Yeah, when a girl who has kissed you on the cheek after class once asks you if you want to do something with her on the weekend, she most definitely isn't interested in you, at all. She's just acting like she's interested, it's a clever ruse to embarrass you. Thank god you didn't fall for that one.
-Same goes with the girls asking you to go to a different bar with them. Close call there dude.
-When girls ask if your roommates are around, that means they are thinking about drugging you, tying you down and raping you. You narrowly escaped.
-When girls invite you out for drinks, they are looking to roofie you and date rape the s*** out of you. Stay away at all costs.
-When women bring up stopping whatever you are doing and making out, what they really mean is "I just want to be friends, and most certainly don't want to bring you back to my place to pleasure you all night". So yeah, your instincts were sound there.
-Holding eachother in arms for hours?! Your lucky she didn't boa-constricter you to death, that was her master plan. Keep increasing pressure without you noticing until it is too late.
-Yeah, when women bring you into their room and then sit on their bed, what they are looking for you to do is leave immediately so that they can go to sleep. why did you stay standing there, ya creeper.
Your best bet is to just say f*ck it and go for it regardless.
Just wondering, have you kept in contact with even one of the girls you listed above? I mean, what did you gain by not making a move?
Right, exactly. I gained nothing. I am very good friends with the girl who sat on the bed, that's it.
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