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Old 04-25-2014, 06:55 PM
 
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Certain posters here have stated that lonely, misogynist men want to use women for sex. Yet, in my case that is not true. Yes, I do wish to get rid of horniness at times, but that can be taken care of myself. What cannot be taken care of myself is my desire for just general touch and embrace, and as a lonely, depressed person that is what makes me suffer the most, day in, day out. I just want to feel human softness and warmth.
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Old 04-25-2014, 07:00 PM
 
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I often suspect that for some reason I'm so lonely and desperate that I see women less than the way a man sees a woman and more like the way a toddler sees it's mother.
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Old 04-25-2014, 07:02 PM
 
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I often suspect that for some reason I'm so lonely and desperate that I see women less than the way a man sees a woman and more like the way a toddler sees it's mother.
Yes I do. The problem is if we were to confess this to women, most would not take us seriously.
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Old 04-25-2014, 07:07 PM
 
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Yes I do. The problem is if we were to confess this to women, most would not take us seriously.
I hate the fact that some people lump lonely men as misogynists enough to admit this.
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Old 04-25-2014, 07:11 PM
 
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It's not something I think about, which might be the best way I could describe my thoughts on the subject.

Sure, there are times I feel ronery, but even those who are in relationships feel that way sometimes, it's not just the singles who feel that way.

Yup, i think about sex a lot too, but I usually think about who the woman is more than I think about hugging and sex.

And really, I don't actually think about naked women that much, because that is the beginning of a very awkward boner when I am out or at work.
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Old 04-25-2014, 07:14 PM
 
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I had a guy friend back in collage that said as much as he liked sex, he also liked just cuddling with someone and sometimes just wanted to do that until he fell asleep. It's a basic need for physical human contact I think--we are all human and we all crave it to a degree, men and women.
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Old 04-25-2014, 07:16 PM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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Hmm. See, I have this problem: Cuddling more often then not, you know.......makes things happen to a certain part of my body. So....that generally makes the other party want it. Cuddle after that? Yeah, I'm good.


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Old 04-25-2014, 07:16 PM
 
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Something killed my drive. I stopped wanting sex most of the time and now I just want cuddles, even in clothes. Heck, I stopped trying to imagine what a woman looks like naked.
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Old 04-25-2014, 07:17 PM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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Something killed my drive. I stopped wanting sex most of the time and now I just want cuddles, even in clothes. Heck, I stopped trying to imagine what a woman looks like naked.

Lies.
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Old 04-25-2014, 07:20 PM
 
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Lies.
Outside of viewing erotic content, I don't have the drive anymore. I just want to latch on and rest my head on their shoulder.
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