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shut your mouth. i know, it's not the first though that i caught him. he also looks at craigslist personals. i caught him masturbating to porn in our bed when i was asleep. i woke up, he got angry and went to next room where i know he continued.
i had my period then so honestly i am very much ok with that i rather he do that.
i have my period again this week but it just didn't feel right if he is looking at ads. porn yes, but ads??
So... maybe his wife isn't as horrible as he described after all. It is likely he painted such an ugly picture to cover up his history as a rotten husband and father.
He is a cheater and a liar. So much for karma, eh?
Thanks. You got me. I really was curious about my husband's son because I know I will never have one. My age plus my husband's vasectomy sealed that fate.
I somehow want his son to seek his biological father. This year, he is at the age where he can do what he wants.
See tonight my husband called me to ask if I want anything because he is buying some food before he comes home from work. He is that kind of guy.
Yes. I really am seeking answers. Because my husband won't give me any more details except for what he already told me.
Seeing an almost perfect deja vu of my husband's divorce and the 2nd guy's divorce to the same woman with EXACT same circumstance that led to divorce. A major fight.
Then my husband has told me the truth. He said himself he see no reason to lie. He just don't want me to ask him over and over on that night they fought.
But seeing the court records of same lawsuit this woman sued her ex husbands for, what does that tell you about this woman? I honestly doesn't want to know.
Like I said I feel sorry for their son. 2 divorces in his lifetime.
The first he was still an infant fortunately, to not be aware of the circumstances. The 2nd, unfortunately, he is aware.
This is the woman who told my husband to put a noose around his neck, she will make up a story later for their son. I mean WTF?!
If you ask me she deserve it.
Honestly, while we were eating just now, I so wanted to tell him what I found out. And for some reason I see/look at my husband differently. I just don't know if it's a good or bad sign.
By the way, the picture I told you with my husband's son and the 2nd husband? He is smiling with his arms around his stepfather. That was AFTER the divorce was finalized. So, if the woman's lawsuit on this guy is true, what does that tell you? Pretty sure, he heard the fight. Why would he still have a good relationship with his stepfather who was accused by his biological mom of hurting her?!!
I'm feeling kind of sorry for your husband right now. He has NO idea what his wife has been up to, what she's found out, what she now knows and THEN plastering it all over the 'net. Poor man... Why can't you just 'fess up to him, have a good laugh and let it go?
As for the son...the train may have left the station but it's always possible he could want to look his dad up. You should be feeling 'satisfied' with yourself and let it drop now.
You want to know what your husband's 1st family looks like - you ASK HIM. You don't go stalking and snooping online. You are a real trip. Your posts come across as drivel now, so no point in continuing.
Are you serious do you really think an infant would look the same as an adult? Are you a tool? Anyway he did tell me his son got his brown eyes and cleft chin. I saw the pic, no cleft chin no brown eyes.
He did mention his ex has 'german eyes' whatever that means. I saw the pic I dunno if that's what german eyes are.
Also I hate descriptions, I prefer to see it for myself.
I'm feeling kind of sorry for your husband right now. He has NO idea what his wife has been up to, what she's found out, what she now knows and THEN plastering it all over the 'net. Poor man... Why can't you just 'fess up to him, have a good laugh and let it go?
As for the son...the train may have left the station but it's always possible he could want to look his dad up. You should be feeling 'satisfied' with yourself and let it drop now.
Honestly I almost linked my post here to him on my text. He did not reply yesterday when I was bombarding him with text. Wouldn't take my calls either.
Anyway we finally talked earlier. Guess what, I'm coming back home tomorrow.
I didn't like that he won'tanswer my question if he want me back. He just keep saying, you left, it's up to you.
Yap no point continuing. I left him again. I think he is a sex and porn addict. Yesterday, I looked at his phone's web history. It is all backpage ads. Most disturbing is he is looking at asian submissives. when I ask him why he looks at those ads, he said 'that's who I am".
I think I am officially done with him. I can't be with anyone who paid for sex. I don't know the man I married.
I think you are all right.
Funny thing, is I don't feel anything.
I am stupidyou are all right in your opinion about him. Maybe I was just blinded by love.
This is bull**** my life is a joke.
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shut your mouth. i know, it's not the first though that i caught him. he also looks at craigslist personals. i caught him masturbating to porn in our bed when i was asleep. i woke up, he got angry and went to next room where i know he continued.
i had my period then so honestly i am very much ok with that i rather he do that.
i have my period again this week but it just didn't feel right if he is looking at ads. porn yes, but ads??
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Originally Posted by meaning
Honestly I almost linked my post here to him on my text. He did not reply yesterday when I was bombarding him with text. Wouldn't take my calls either.
Anyway we finally talked earlier. Guess what, I'm coming back home tomorrow.
I didn't like that he won'tanswer my question if he want me back. He just keep saying, you left, it's up to you.
No I love you's.
I am still on the fence. I will see what happens.
FML. Like seriously.
Sounds like a great marriage! Congrats on picking a winner! Everyone should get married to someone they barely know!
Sounds like a great marriage! Congrats on picking a winner! Everyone should get married to someone they barely know!
I agree, I only realize now how stupid I am. I admit it. He brought up the kids issue again, so I ask him again why he won't have kids anymore. Same reason -he's too old.
I said come on there must be a REAL reason, there's a reason for everything. He said he has no means to bring a child into the world.
I ask him what's with the ads in his phone. He said he did to annoy me because he is antagonistic like that. And he knows I snoop on his phone. He said after I question him he went to a gay porn site on his phone. I didn't look at his phone anymore so I didn't know that.
So I ask if he ever paid for sex, he said do I think he is the type to do that. Then I ask if he is gay because he brought up the gay porn. He said no.
He has a sick sense of humor. It backfired on him.
Like I said,I am still on the fence so I didn't say I love you to him, so did he.
Honestly I almost linked my post here to him on my text. He did not reply yesterday when I was bombarding him with text. Wouldn't take my calls either.
Anyway we finally talked earlier. Guess what, I'm coming back home tomorrow.
I didn't like that he won'tanswer my question if he want me back. He just keep saying, you left, it's up to you.
No I love you's.
I am still on the fence. I will see what happens.
FML. Like seriously.
Good for your husband not playing your games. Threaten him, expect him to beg you to come back but he doesn't and you come back anyway. How droll and boring. He knows you and he's being honest that "it's up to you", since you are the one playing yo-yo. I'm thinking you love the drama and if anyone "bombarded" me with texts I wouldn't answer either. That's badgering and harassing and I don't care who you are.
Whatever "happens" won't surprise me in the least after reading this entire thread.
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