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I'd stop talking to him just because he didn't know kazakstan exists!
Not because he's not good in geography! but has he AT LEAST not seen borat????
I highly doubt he's ever heard of it!
The guy is from the Burgh actually.
However, I do agree with Mountains ... I should work on myself first. My mom's abusive behavior towards me (it's still happening to this day, mainly verbal abuse) and my dad's restrictive education took a toll on my emotional stability. I'm fully aware I'm not sane emotionally nor mentally and dating people like this d-bag is only going to bring me down. I'm not in a position to distinguish healthy from unhealthy obviously otherwise I wouldn't have let this jerk verbally insult me without reacting! Man, I made out with the guy instead of walking out !!!!
Last edited by LostinPhilly; 05-23-2014 at 02:03 AM..
Be good to yourself Philly, you know you need it...sounds like you get enough crap from the biologicals. Let alone giving yourself a hard time.
What I learned out of my ahole experience was: next time I'll know...I WILL stand up for myself and I'll say "Oh hell with the no, you aren't talking to me like that."
Not only does it sound kinda hip, it gets the point across really well.
Apparently being really direct is the only way to go.
Most abusive men use the charm long enough to get a woman well hooked before they start the abuse. This guy is so abusive, he can't control his behavior for more than a few hours.
Exactly. I found this out the hard way. But now I know better.
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