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i dont blame anyone for being careful, in fact i applaud it. if people were more careful in who they deal with at any level, there wouldnt be the relationship problems that are constantly going on.
It's seriously pathetic.. these women add guys and their entire friends list is 100% guys, yet she adds these guys and her entire wall is filled with a bunch of random dudes trying to hit on her and call her hot.
About 2 weeks ago, I met a guy briefly and he recommended a few restaurants. I only got his name. On facebook, through the friends you may know list, that guy's name appeared and his picture looked similar so I friended him. He accepted. We chatted briefly through facebook, but after looking at his pictures, he wasn't the one. It's not like I was searching for him, it was random. He said it was okay that I got the wrong guy, but he said let's be friends. I didn't think too much about it, and we just chatted for a little bit. I guess he got interested in me and we are going to hang out next Friday for dinner. Throughout the week, he texted me a few times, not a lot, and definitely not everyday.
He said he wanted to talk on the phone Wednesday night so I said sure, but he never called. I never waited. But last night around 2 AM, he texts me if we are still on for next Friday. I tell him yes. Then he starts asking if I'm real, to send him a selfie picture right now, and asking if I am that person. I was appalled. I didn't know where he was coming from. I told him I don't know why he's saying that, and I'm not sending him a picture, and if he feels weird, then we don't need to continue to talk or even meet. I just defriended him on FB too.
He says he's sorry, he's just not good with words, and he wanted to talk on the phone to make him feel comfortable. I told him he said he would call me and he's the one who didn't. I also told him I'm on the same boat as him. Now I feel weird too. I called him and we spoke for 5 minutes, but he was still sleeping.
why is he saying those things??? do I just stop and forget about him?
He was drinking and decided to text you after he left the bar .
I think the selfie was for him to dream about and hoping it would escalate to a naughty selfie. It backfired and now he's apologizing.
Probably because the whole situation is just uncommon. Why did you agree to go out with him so quickly? You probably should have told him to bring some friends and meet you and your friends somewhere just to see one another and then he could have asked you out face-to-face if things worked out during the group meeting.
About 2 weeks ago, I met a guy briefly and he recommended a few restaurants. I only got his name. On facebook, through the friends you may know list, that guy's name appeared and his picture looked similar so I friended him. He accepted. We chatted briefly through facebook, but after looking at his pictures, he wasn't the one. It's not like I was searching for him, it was random. He said it was okay that I got the wrong guy, but he said let's be friends. I didn't think too much about it, and we just chatted for a little bit. I guess he got interested in me and we are going to hang out next Friday for dinner. Throughout the week, he texted me a few times, not a lot, and definitely not everyday.
He said he wanted to talk on the phone Wednesday night so I said sure, but he never called. I never waited. But last night around 2 AM, he texts me if we are still on for next Friday. I tell him yes. Then he starts asking if I'm real, to send him a selfie picture right now, and asking if I am that person. I was appalled. I didn't know where he was coming from. I told him I don't know why he's saying that, and I'm not sending him a picture, and if he feels weird, then we don't need to continue to talk or even meet. I just defriended him on FB too.
He says he's sorry, he's just not good with words, and he wanted to talk on the phone to make him feel comfortable. I told him he said he would call me and he's the one who didn't. I also told him I'm on the same boat as him. Now I feel weird too. I called him and we spoke for 5 minutes, but he was still sleeping.
why is he saying those things??? do I just stop and forget about him?
This sounds a a lot like a few other recent threads where the original poster met a guy and briefly chatted with him.
Perhaps it is best to do what you feel is the best thing to do at this point in your life and make your own decision.
Let's see, some random woman befriended him out of the blue on FB and agreed to go on a date ... and MTV's Catfish is on late at night ... hmmm ... why is he behaving like this? Why are you?
It doesn't make any sense for him to worry like this. They are meeting in a week. How can this be a catfish? Also, any doubts he has will be resolved in a week. There is no need for a random 2 AM freakout. That is just too much drama for someone you haven't met yet.
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