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Do the healthy thing... I know that is easier said than done... believe it or not but there is a large handful of people here that are emotionally/spiritually healthy enough to recommend good advice and actually want people to do well...........
I'm just embarrassed. I do get it on some level with this person. I am lucky this other man likes me, even though long distance is not practical. My boyfriend is a horrible person. I don't know why. He just doesn't love me, but to humiliate me like that. He really has a mean streak. Why tell the world that we are committed and then go along with the ex who is only saying she wants to see him to make trouble. Well she succeeded. I am actually nauseous which I sometimes get instead of or along with the gut feeling when something is very wrong. So my instinct gets it. How can a man who can get sex elsewhere without too much difficulty act like this just for sex? It's REALLY confusing. But yes, he made up with me for sex and now that he's satisfied he wants to push me away again. Makes sense.
Thank you a million times thank you for responding. For caring enough to respond. I get that you a stranger show more concern for me than him. Yes, he wants sex and that was probably why he made up with me after the fight. It's hard to believe he doesn't love me. His mom will be just as heart broken as me, no joke. And I feel bad about that too but she has to understand, after all she was married to his father and the fruit doesn't fall far from the tree here. There will be so many people I have to cut out of my life, at least temporarily here. And I really love his family and friends. I also know they have to go and that makes it hard too. Thank you again.
It sucks to lose people you care about because of one person's selfishness. But it's just collateral damage.
Right now the ONLY person you should worry about is YOU.
Anyone who wants to comment on the question itself? Things aren't always as easy as the way they are written online. People interact in real life and I am not sure why my ex and I were drawn to each other again but of course I see why it was a bad idea to get back together with him. It's surreal when you're in the situation. I can read what I wrote and what everyone wrote as well the facts are dismal. But living it is a different story and we did reunite. I get it, he's not going to change, I guess he likes being single. So that answers my question, if he's going to act like a single person, of course there is not a reason I shouldn't as well. But I'm still open to comments on the current situations. I'm not denying I deserve the I told you so's.
It doesn't matter why you where drown together you realize you are oil and water, you're suppose to learn from situation like these so you better know he type of people you NEED in your life.
If you are both going to act single why even bother being together?
you will only receive for life what you seek and allow, if you allow this type of behavior or purposefully seek it out what more do you expect to gain from life?
Lack of forethought is not and excuse when you have been here before to know exactly what your getting in to
You have to realize allowing people that will harm you or not take you in to consideration is just breeding a life of nothing but
I got back together with my ex boyfriend. It is not going well. I am mortified that his girlfriend before me wrote on his face book, right after we changed our relationship status that she would visit and wanted to hang out with him. Rather than ignore it, he says he would love to!
Next time find a guy who at least has the decency to do these things behind your back.
I'm just embarrassed. I do get it on some level with this person. I am lucky this other man likes me, even though long distance is not practical. My boyfriend is a horrible person. I don't know why. He just doesn't love me, but to humiliate me like that. He really has a mean streak. Why tell the world that we are committed and then go along with the ex who is only saying she wants to see him to make trouble. Well she succeeded. I am actually nauseous which I sometimes get instead of or along with the gut feeling when something is very wrong. So my instinct gets it. How can a man who can get sex elsewhere without too much difficulty act like this just for sex? It's REALLY confusing. But yes, he made up with me for sex and now that he's satisfied he wants to push me away again. Makes sense.
And none of that has anything to do with him, there are mean, nasty, cruel people everywhere.
It has to do with you, and why you know that and keep getting back together with him, over and over and over and over........
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I see no reason I shouldn't hang out with this other man platonically. In fact, I think it's an excellent idea. Opinions? Thank you.
I don't think it will be platonic, and I'm pretty sure neither do you.
Get rid of your boyfriend and get right with yourself, alone. You are only rebounding on this other guy because you know this boyfriend is not that into you.
The definition of insanity...doing the same thing over and over then expecting a different outcome.
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It is not going well. I am mortified that his girlfriend before me wrote on his face book, right after we changed our relationship status that she would visit and wanted to hang out with him. Rather than ignore it, he says he would love to!
