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Old 09-16-2014, 12:53 PM
 
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This is why I say that texting is garbage communication. I'm sure there are cases where women have acted just as psycho, in which case I invite others to post links.

Anyway, don't be these guys. (NSFW: Printed cuss words.)

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Old 09-16-2014, 12:58 PM
 
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Well, the first guy apologized, at least, and to an extent I can understand frustration when the person does not respond to your text. The second guy is clearly crazy, though.

I haven't seen texts from women who get really angry, but I do remember this one from a woman who snapped on this guy but in a different way.

http://www.buzzfeed.com/hgrant/this-...text-messaging
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Old 09-16-2014, 01:04 PM
 
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Well, the first guy apologized, at least, and to an extent I can understand frustration when the person does not respond to your text. The second guy is clearly crazy, though.

I haven't seen texts from women who get really angry, but I do remember this one from a woman who snapped on this guy but in a different way.

http://www.buzzfeed.com/hgrant/this-...text-messaging
Holy sh--!! That is some level of crazy I have never seen.
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Old 09-16-2014, 01:14 PM
 
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"I don't feel comfortable seeing you anymore."

Talk about the understatement of the century. That guy probably faked his own death to get away. And WTF with the fake texts to other people???

And the words self entitled princess and references to Sex and the City sound oh so familiar. Wonder if that dude posts on here.
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Old 09-16-2014, 01:14 PM
 
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Holy sh--!! That is some level of crazy I have never seen.
I've had that exact "conversation" a bunch of times, maybe a dozen or more. It's not as uncommon as you'd think.
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Old 09-16-2014, 01:16 PM
 
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i hate rejection as much as the next person but jeez....
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Old 09-16-2014, 01:16 PM
 
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"I don't feel comfortable seeing you anymore."

Talk about the understatement of the century. That guy probably faked his own death to get away. And WTF with the fake texts to other people???
That one is INCREDIBLY common in women (I can't speak for men). I'd say I see that in close to half the women I've dated. My sample is going to be a bit skewed since I'm often attracted to crazy, but it's definitely all over the place.
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Old 09-16-2014, 01:21 PM
 
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That one is INCREDIBLY common in women (I can't speak for men). I'd say I see that in close to half the women I've dated. My sample is going to be a bit skewed since I'm often attracted to crazy, but it's definitely all over the place.
Yeah, you might want to take some ownership there, though. If you keep gravitating toward the same type of people, you're going to keep having the same experiences. You know what they say about the definition of insanity: doing the same thing again and again but expecting different results.

As a woman and, most importantly, a human being, I can tell you that **** ain't normal behavior.
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Old 09-16-2014, 01:24 PM
 
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Yeah, you might want to take some ownership there, though. If you keep gravitating toward the same type of people, you're going to keep having the same experiences. You know what they say about the definition of insanity: doing the same thing again and again but expecting different results.

As a woman and, most importantly, a human being, I can tell you that **** ain't normal behavior.
I'm pretty sure my previous post did that. Like I said, I'm aware of my choices...nobody's expecting anything different here I never said I exclusively date crazy women...I just probably date more of them than most guys.

But as someone with a lot of dating experience, it shows up a lot in women that aren't your standard "garden-variety" crazy too. I see those texts from "normal" women all the time.
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Old 09-16-2014, 01:31 PM
 
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I'm pretty sure my previous post did that. Like I said, I'm aware of my choices...nobody's expecting anything different here I never said I exclusively date crazy women...I just probably date more of them than most guys.

But as someone with a lot of dating experience, it shows up a lot in women that aren't your standard "garden-variety" crazy too. I see those texts from "normal" women all the time.
Perhaps they just can't let go of the good Hivemind lovin'?

To me it's mind blowing. I won't even text a friend more than twice in a row, let alone a dude who clearly doesn't want me.

I have had guys text me again and again, but usually it's not consecutively and they wait a few days. It makes me shudder that any of this is not a surprise to anyone.

People be cray cray.
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