So what do we do for 15 days?

[Katnan]

Originally Posted by jambo101

No kidding, but we arent talking about women looking at guys we are talking about this guys predisposition to take a casual look at a pretty woman something that is not a myth its something guys do,its natural whats not natural is this guys girl friend watching where this guy is looking then giving him heat for looking,staring is something else and if this is what he does she may have a point..
IMO if at this point in the relationship she's giving you a hard time about what you are looking at its only going to get worse, get some self respect and end this charade.

Is it natural to look at other women so much that your SO notices, and in turn it makes her feel bad because you can't control your own eyeballs?

SO and I were discussing something similar the other day. He has a bit of an artist's eye for things and notices prominent/striking/unique features on people and finds most of the young women today all blend together and look the same. Where is it you go that so many women are worth more than a passing glance?

[jambo101]

Originally Posted by Wmsn4Life

Because you don't get that women also have a natural tendency to look at handsome men. It's NOT a male-only thing that you men no control over, as you assert.

We both know and acknowledge that the GF is overreacting and insecure, but he has ownership in this also.

I never intended to imply women dont have a tendency to look at men but thats not the focus of this topic..

At this point we need the op to return and clarify his definition of staring..