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The thing is shes not usally like this, she told me shes willing to change just as soon as I show her I did... my question is what can we do to last these 15 days... because ofcourse im gonna go out, I have a social life.. im definitely not staying home. ..
The thing is shes not usally like this, she told me shes willing to change just as soon as I show her I did... my question is what can we do to last these 15 days... because ofcourse im gonna go out, I have a social life.. im definitely not staying home. ..
You just confirmed what I said before, that you're not invested enough in this relationship. I don't think her demands are at all reasonable but on the other hand, if you really wanted this relationship to work you would be on the phone with her trying to reassure her instead of just insisting that you're not staying home.
My girlfriend of 2 years has some serious trust issues with me right now. Wer long distance but shes moving near me in 15 days. Well what happened, long story short... she saw me stare at girls multiple times when we wer together 2 different times.
Well now im trying to make things better, and when she moves ill prove it to her. But right now she doesn't trust me to go out or anything. And everytime I do she gets mad and stops talking to me.. like gets hella distant. So wer trying to come up with a way to build trust and make things better. So for these 15 days what can we do when she doesn't trust me to do anything? And the line between staying togetor and breaking up is a strand of hair right now lol.
here is a silly idea, STOP STARING AT OTHER GIRLS when you are with her. when i am going with a girl, there are no other girls around. my last girlfriend would point out other girls and ask i though they were pretty, or prettier than her, and i would always tell her that there are no other girls around, and that as far as i was concerned they were just men with boobs.
I dont care how much you love and respect your partner guys will take notice of other women if only to admire another womans beauty for a brief moment, its the way we guys are wired,any guy walking down a beach that doesnt take a short casual glance at an attractive woman as she walks by is defective in my opinion. To the op ,get darker shades if she doesnt grasp the concept,guys look at women if she cant deal with it tell her to get lost.
I dont care how much you love and respect your partner guys will take notice of other women if only to admire another womans beauty for a brief moment, its the way we guys are wired,any guy walking down a beach that doesnt take a short casual glance at an attractive woman as she walks by is defective in my opinion. To the op ,get darker shades if she doesnt grasp the concept,guys look at women if she cant deal with it tell her to get lost.
He said he stared at them. Big difference.
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Originally Posted by kidsondrugs2
My girlfriend of 2 years has some serious trust issues with me right now. Wer long distance but shes moving near me in 15 days. Well what happened, long story short... she saw me stare at girls multiple times when we wer together 2 different times.
My girlfriend of 2 years has some serious trust issues with me right now. Wer long distance but shes moving near me in 15 days. Well what happened, long story short... she saw me stare at girls multiple times when we wer together 2 different times.
Why do I not believe this is the entire story? Have you cheated before? Are you sure you didn't give her any other reason to not trust you? If you were completely innocent and she acted in such an irrational controlling manner, you would have dumped her yesterday. And here you are asking how to prove yourself.
The thing is shes not usally like this, she told me shes willing to change just as soon as I show her I did... my question is what can we do to last these 15 days... because ofcourse im gonna go out, I have a social life.. im definitely not staying home. ..
You can break up with her, you are not going to change for long if you change at all because you really don't want to and she won't change for long either because she will find some other reason to start telling you what you can do with whom when and how long.
There is no saving this situation so cut your losses and move on it will be best for both of you.
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