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Old 06-11-2014, 07:00 PM
 
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Thanks- You don't need to be sorry, I need to be told. My husband refused to kick me to the curb, he does not want to yell at me and whatever it is that I did, he kept it to himself. He was tearing inside but he loves me and he hold on to me despite my neglect.

He accepted me with open arms when the world was against me. He knows I was devastated. He cheered me up, and took my side. Just like I said on my first post, I expected that from him because he's inherently a considerate person but it broke my heart when I realized that I almost lost him for my work- My work who kick me to the curb, humiliated me and immediately let me go without a second thought. That was it for me- unfortunately I had to lost my job in the process, but am glad that it happened before I lost the most important relationship in my life.
Wow, losing your job has turned out to be a good thing. Your job was the dodged bullet in this case. You are going to be much happier in the long run.

If you haven't lost your job, you might have found yourself looking back with regret. You'll be alright.
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Old 06-11-2014, 07:02 PM
 
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As a woman who was hell bent on climbing up the corporate ladder, I neglected my personal relationship with my husband.

I'm looking forward to a new beginning with my husband. If I go back to work later or anytime soon, I promise myself to put my husband and my family first before my job. No job is ever worth losing a family for.
Absolutely Love this. This is a how a woman with sense is supposed to think.

Career and Money will never be able to replace the love of a faithful committed supportive husband.

Pay attention single ladies.
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Old 06-11-2014, 07:05 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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Absolutely Love this. This is a how a woman with sense is supposed to think.

Career and Money will never be able to replace the love of a faithful committed supportive husband.

Pay attention single ladies.


Yeah!!!!!


FORGOE the employment ladies!!!!!


(You can only listen when men tell you what they want)
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Old 06-11-2014, 07:08 PM
 
Location: The Great West
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Career and Money will never be able to replace the love of a faithful committed supportive husband.

Pay attention single ladies.


I guess you're that kind of husband then? lol

You missed the point of her post. I would explain it but...nah.
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Old 06-11-2014, 07:15 PM
 
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As a woman who was hell bent on climbing up the corporate ladder, I neglected my personal relationship with my husband. We were on the brink of getting a divorce. I attended corporate parties and I enjoyed spending time with my work colleagues as well as my business partner. I thought I was invincible.
Have you ever cheated on your husband?
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Old 06-11-2014, 07:29 PM
 
Location: NYC
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A successful marriage will always be far better and more fulfilling for you. This is a question of love vs money, and I say love wins out every time. You are fortunate to have figured this out so young. Some people don't get it until they are lying on their death bed.
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Old 06-11-2014, 07:30 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Yeah!!!!!


FORGOE the employment ladies!!!!!


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He didn't say these things. Can't we just discuss the topic without putting words in each other's mouths?
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Old 06-11-2014, 07:33 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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He didn't say these things. Can't we just discuss the topic without putting words in each other's mouths?
Humor fail.
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Old 06-11-2014, 07:37 PM
 
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OP now all you need to do is get pregnant, never wear shoes and you will be whole and complete as a woman.
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Old 06-11-2014, 07:46 PM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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A good overall lesson. Remember that work should is and should be a PART of your life not your life. Pouring your entire life into your work and nothing else is not a good idea because you are always replaceable as a worker.
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