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Here's what's wacked about this forum. Women post, "He blocked me, and stopped calling after our last date! Boo hoo! What do I do?" And everyone says, "It's over. Move on." Nobody says, "He might be sick or injured, or in trouble. You should go over to his place, let yourself into the building without buzzing him first, and see if he's ok".
If the guy had posted "She blocked me, and stopped calling after our last date! Boo hoo! What do I do?" Everyone would say "It's over. Move on." But he didn't post here.
Noone said what the guy did was ok but given that he didn't bust her door down or cause a scene and went away after she told him to, it seems like an overreaction on Op's part.
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But some dude gets blocked, and a week later he slithers into the woman's apt. bldg and knocks on her door, saying he was worried about her, and everyone blames her for blocking him? Like she provoked that incident, it's all her fault, he bears no responsibility for his choice of action?
She didn't provoke the incident but the incident could've been avoided had she simply told him it's over when she decided it was over.
If the guy had posted "She blocked me, and stopped calling after our last date! Boo hoo! What do I do?" Everyone would say "It's over. Move on." But he didn't post here.
Noone said what the guy did was ok but given that he didn't bust her door down or cause a scene and went away after she told him to, it seems like an overreaction on Op's part.
She didn't provoke the incident but the incident could've been avoided had she simply told him it's over when she decided it was over.
There's alot of knee-jerking going on here.
OK, good point. Even so, he could've just called her from the call box to see if she was ok. And yeah, at least just texting him that it was over and she needed space to deal w/some family tragedies may have prevented the situation. I cut her some slack bc she had some intense stuff to deal with at the time.
OK, good point. Even so, he could've just called her from the call box to see if she was ok. And yeah, at least just texting him that it was over and she needed space to deal w/some family tragedies may have prevented the situation. I cut her some slack bc she had some intense stuff to deal with at the time.
From what was posted, it seems that's what he's guilty of -- overstepping boundaries a bit.
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