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Old 06-24-2014, 11:06 PM
 
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There are plenty of things its a big town. Hing called painting with a twist is one. Heck a bar and grill is fine. Casinos you name it
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Old 06-24-2014, 11:08 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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There are plenty of things its a big town. Hing called painting with a twist is one. Heck a bar and grill is fine. Casinos you name it
OK, so have you asked her why she and her friends aren't interested in any of those places? It sounds like there's plenty of choice.
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Old 06-24-2014, 11:09 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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There are plenty of things its a big town. Hing called painting with a twist is one. Heck a bar and grill is fine. Casinos you name it
You really think that prevents guys from hitting on women aggressively? /chuckle

Listen, I understand. You want to prevent risky behavior in your GF. That is understandable and she should understand that.

BUT, guys will hit on women in ANY venue. Fact.

So you need to be able to trust in your GF.
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Old 06-24-2014, 11:09 PM
 
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You can experience a/holes any place but why be subjected to an environment full of them? And why should the man at work have to be subjected to being uncomfortable about it?
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Old 06-24-2014, 11:10 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Agreed. I have personally experienced what you describe, sans throwing drink in face.

I don't need to be saved from being "subjected", (lol), you can experience a-holes at a nice dinner. I am faithful, doesn't depend on the environment.
You would be totally alright if your husband had "guys night out" in dance clubs/bars?
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Old 06-24-2014, 11:11 PM
 
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You can experience a/holes any place but why be subjected to an environment full of them? And why should the man at work have to be subjected to being uncomfortable about it?
The fact that you feel subjected to it, is a subject for you and your GF to discuss and come to an agreement. If you can.
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Old 06-24-2014, 11:11 PM
 
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Her friends are single and enjoy the single lifestyle and also one of her friends is married and cheats constantly
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Old 06-24-2014, 11:15 PM
 
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Her friends are single and enjoy the single lifestyle and also one of her friends is married and cheats constantly
Sounds like this is making you nervous. Again, I don't blame you for how you feel, but if your marriage is solid and you know you can trust her you shouldn't let what her friends do scare you so much.
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Old 06-24-2014, 11:15 PM
 
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You would be totally alright if your husband had "guys night out" in dance clubs/bars?
My thoughts exactly she said she would be Okay but let a woman cut an eye at me she gets mean "lol" let her walk in the club and see a woman hit on me I'd be bailing her out of jail
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Old 06-24-2014, 11:15 PM
 
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You would be totally alright if your husband had "guys night out" in dance clubs/bars?
Honestly? Yeah, it would get my seal of approval. He doesn't have a lot of guys night out, by choice. Did I know the friends intended to take him to strip clubs for his bachelor's party? Sure. We discussed it. Would I cause a fuss over them merely going out to a dance club? Hell no. Girls will hit on him no matter what. Will more drunk chicks hit on him in a club. Sure, maybe. /shrug

Chances to be unfaithful occur everywhere.... work, grocery store, etc.

Honestly, a bunch of drunk guys asking me out has never been an enticement, and same for my husband (yeah, substitute girls..).
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