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you missed my point. a woman, any woman, can simply tell a guy that she wants to get laid by him, and chances are the woman is going to get what she wants. that same guy on the other hand can walk up to that same woman, and say the same thing and be rejected straight away. as i said, women choose who they have sex with, men have to work at it to get it.
yes lucid dreaming is amazing when you have trained your mind. now your next step is to do that lucid dreaming while you are awake.
It depends on the guy she is going up to. Just like it depends on what woman the guy goes up to. I've had women be very forward with me right off the bat and I did not take them up on it. I wasn't into them, and I don't sleep with people I have no interest in. And it's not just physical, its their vibe. But I'm not your typical guy who is desperate and convinced that sleeping with a woman, any woman, is the key to happiness and approval from one's peers.
You can't lucid dream when you are awake... Dreaming occurs during the REM phase of sleep. Lucid dreaming is being awake and conscious within a dream.
I have a very friendly/flirty personality in the real world. It's nothing that I do intentionally though, it's just how I interact with folks. I really have no idea what makes it flirty, but a lot of folks comment on it.
I have a very friendly/flirty personality in the real world. It's nothing that I do intentionally though, it's just how I interact with folks. I really have no idea what makes it flirty, but a lot of folks comment on it.
So reading some threads on this forum some people are unsure of they way we send our flirting signals. Obviously it is different for everyone, but I thought this thread could giver people some ideas on what to try or what to look for.
Share the sorts of things you do when you are flirting with intent. Here are two of mine.
1. I am too chicken to approach unless there is a really good reason for me to approach you to initiate a conversation (read this as obvious reason, like you are already talking to someone I know). Since this doesn't happen most of the time, then orbiting is the way to go. Basically I will plant myself nearby (and make really slight eye contact occasionally) so you only have a few steps to go if you want to chat with me. This might mean walking past you to go to the bathroom a few times, and maybe stopping to put on lip gloss or check my phone halfway there in your field of vision. Or it could mean planting myself at the table near yours during a cocktail party.
2. Assuming I am already talking to you, then I'll find a reason to touch your lower arm or elbow during the conversation to make a point. I'll live my hand there for just one extra second so you know it is intentional (and of course read your corresponding body language).
Speak up, what do you do when you are flirting?
Wow this is... Really insecure-y or even a low self esteem approach. Well at least you're approaching!
Nice man you have basic touch down. That physical barrier is what seperates women who think of you sexually and those who do not. Just make it look natural, like if you need to get by push on her back or shoulder. Don't limit yourself to her arms though, be free! Don't grope her though, that's the opposite of being smooth.
The next part is playful banter or teasing. Most people think small talk is flirting, it is not. It can lead to flirting but flirting is entirely different. Its poking fun at her in a playful non serious manner. Telling her that "she's the best girl on the planet or the prettiest" is not flirting. Guys who have no game do that. Treat it like a bratty little sister, she does these random things and you make fun of her for it. Flirting is basically having a good yet a tad sarcastic time.
I have a very friendly/flirty personality in the real world. It's nothing that I do intentionally though, it's just how I interact with folks. I really have no idea what makes it flirty, but a lot of folks comment on it.
According to some posters on this thread - this makes us bad people!
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Originally Posted by Frayzer
Wow this is... Really insecure-y or even a low self esteem approach. Well at least you're approaching!
Nice man you have basic touch down. That physical barrier is what seperates women who think of you sexually and those who do not. Just make it look natural, like if you need to get by push on her back or shoulder. Don't limit yourself to her arms though, be free! Don't grope her though, that's the opposite of being smooth.
The next part is playful banter or teasing. Most people think small talk is flirting, it is not. It can lead to flirting but flirting is entirely different. Its poking fun at her in a playful non serious manner. Telling her that "she's the best girl on the planet or the prettiest" is not flirting. Guys who have no game do that. Treat it like a bratty little sister, she does these random things and you make fun of her for it. Flirting is basically having a good yet a tad sarcastic time.
Jade is a woman.
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