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Old 07-27-2014, 02:08 PM
 
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Two choices here:

Keep her and continue to have these issues
or
Toss her, block her and end all contact even if she shows up at your door

Your choice
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Old 07-27-2014, 04:15 PM
 
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I don't know what to think of this. She blocked me from everything but in a moment of weakness called me up. She cried for an hour, yelled at me a bit, hit me.
She hit you? I'd have thrown her arse out then and there, drunk or not. I'd have made sure she had cab money, or called the cab and paid the driver myself, then booted her out and never spoken to her again.

Emotional ups and downs after a break-up are common. Getting violent is not. It's a line that once crossed means "never again."
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Old 07-27-2014, 04:20 PM
 
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She is clearly much more emotionally invested than I am.
Really?

I am skeptical.
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Old 07-27-2014, 04:44 PM
 
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She hit you? I'd have thrown her arse out then and there, drunk or not. I'd have made sure she had cab money, or called the cab and paid the driver myself, then booted her out and never spoken to her again.

Emotional ups and downs after a break-up are common. Getting violent is not. It's a line that once crossed means "never again."
She threw keys at me.
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Old 07-28-2014, 02:01 AM
 
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Really?

I am skeptical.
I will be honest here about my attachment to her. She did make me feel less angry individual living in a place where I felt displaced and invisible I will admit. She knows me and my motivations and it is almost scary how well she knows me.

I guess that's why I had a soft spot for her. She did make a few comments about how our kids would look like if we went that path. I admit I thought about that too.

When I cracked my rib a few weeks ago she got me no question. I know she cares about me and says she loves me. I've seen her after she got attacked by her friend, been there when she had to get surgery. We have history.

But all the red flags point to 'crazy' whatever that means. There are a few things I have left out regarding us.
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Old 07-28-2014, 03:29 AM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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I knew a girl like this. She ended up as a victim of a serial killer.
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Old 07-28-2014, 09:34 AM
 
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I knew a girl like this. She ended up as a victim of a serial killer.
Whoa..details?
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Old 07-29-2014, 02:03 AM
 
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So my friend told me she's on Tinder. It seems for dating. Well, she moves fast and trying to get over me. Just odd considering she was at my place a few nights ago.
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Old 07-29-2014, 02:16 AM
 
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Yikes dude. Stay away. There's no excuse for her putting her hands on you, shared history or not.
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Old 07-29-2014, 02:49 AM
 
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Yikes dude. Stay away. There's no excuse for her putting her hands on you, shared history or not.
I'm trying to recall if she actually hit me, but she did throw her keys at me. But yeah I agree.
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